May 19, 2025
Jay Urich: Making an Impact After Football | EP 20
Jay Urich, former QB at the University of South Carolina, is the founder of both Original Design and Banner Player Development. Original Design is a non-profit focused on serving underprivileged kids in Columbia, and helps pair them with a mentor as they navigate middle and high school. Jay's most recent venture, Banner Player Development, equips younger athletes with the tools and resources they will need to succeed both on and off the field.
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And so a mindset, well, I just
got to win, drive down on the
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score.
Obviously there's more to life
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than football.
Difficult was it to transition
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away from football into civilian
life.
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Success isn't defined by one
specific measure.
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Everybody has a different
journey.
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It's all combined and it's all
about that brotherhood and love,
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not necessarily The Who has the
most money or who made it the
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furthest, the longest.
NFL original design is all about
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helping underserved children in
Columbia know their original
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So I think it comes down to
identity and it has nothing to
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do with what I do.
It's by His grace and by His
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blood and by His body.
And so as I receive that and
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confidence.
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Today's guest is Jay Urich, a
previous Division One athletes
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playing quarterback at the
University of South Carolina
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from 2017 with a 2020 when he
finished up, he was the top QB
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in the state coming out of high
school class of 2017 and a local
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to the Upstate having a passion
for the community.
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After a successful career and
graduating from Carolina, Jay
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started Original Design in 2020,
a nonprofit that works to allow
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underprivileged kids to succeed
in all aspects of life.
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He is now also the founder of
Banner Player Development and
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Initiative aimed at helping
middle and high school athletes
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have the tools they need to
succeed both in both on and off
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the field.
Jay, thanks for coming up.
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I'm excited to talk to you man.
It's going to be good.
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Yeah, man, I'm excited to be
here.
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And I know you got my last name
right.
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I know we were.
We were connected back in the
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day in high school football.
But a lot of people say you rich
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or something.
So you did.
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It right?
Yeah, that's how well I get the
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same thing with the Gerald.
It's Gerald, but Heath Gerard or
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Keith Gerald.
I'm like, it's just Gerald.
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But when you look back on your
high school career, are there
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any games that really stick out
to you?
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It's like a great game or a
terrible game.
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I think honestly, it's a mix
between both of the great and
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the bad games.
So I think we're playing
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Greenville High School my senior
year.
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So I was already committed to
South Carolina and it was, I
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think it was senior night and I
think it was a back and forth.
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Senior Night.
It was our senior night at home.
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I ran and I think it was going
back and forth as like maybe
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like things like 41, duh, 30
something we were.
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Leading.
Yeah.
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And then so like I think there's
like maybe 5 minutes to go and
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we were driving on the field and
I threw a a sort of seam ball
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into cover 2 corner that sort of
drifted back and he's really
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athletic corner and picked it
off.
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And so they went down to score.
And so they're up by like 2 or
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something like that with like a
minute to go.
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And so that was on scene and I
was like, crap.
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I just like lost the game for
us, but obviously. 2 minutes
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left in the game.
Yeah, Yeah, we have.
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A minute left.
And so my mindset went like, we
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just got to win.
We got to drive down on the
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score.
And you know, in high school
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you're not really like focus on
kicking field goals like you are
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in college.
But we got to score a touchdown.
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So I was like, let's do it.
So he was like a minute left in
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the first play.
We ran like a quarterback
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counter because I was, I could,
I could run a little bit and so
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I took it I think 68 yards of
the house.
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So.
That was like a really fun
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because it was like went from a
big time of adversity where I,
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you know, was really, you know,
you know, hurt emotionally just
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like me.
I just let my team down to, you
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know, being like, let's go like
next play mentality and being
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able to to, you know, score and
on.
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They got the ball back.
They did, and they, you know,
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they didn't they.
Didn't do it.
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They didn't.
Score actually was back on the
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field and prevent defense.
I was one of the deep.
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Nice.
I was playing both ways.
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You play both ways a lot, no?
OK, I got you.
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I never played defense, but you
know, obviously on Thursdays
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before the games, you practice
the last game scenarios and.
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He's a big guy.
I'm knocking the ball down.
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Exactly.
Exactly.
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I don't know if I'll be able to
tackle anything.
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But not a lot.
Yeah, I kid you not, I I still
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think about occasionally.
Not a lot.
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My junior year.
We were playing Blue Ridge your
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sophomore year and we got
smacked.
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We played a terrible game.
We were supposed to be great
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that season.
I played for Jail Man back in
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the day.
You were at Blue Ridge then and
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we had just like beat Southside
pretty good, which is incredible
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because Jail Man is always
terrible.
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And we just won our first game
like 30 points.
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We were like, hey, we're going
to go in there and beat Blue
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Ridge and.
We did terrible was at Blue
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Ridge.
Yeah, yeah.
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So it's probably one of your
first starts, Yeah.
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That was yeah, my sophomore
year.
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I.
Think it.
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Was early in the season right
it?
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Was second game yeah cuz then
the next game we played
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Hillcrest, OK and they won state
that year wow and we were
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playing them kind of tight we
were playing decent and then it
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was the second quarter so early
game I tore my ACL was done for
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the.
Year, I do remember that.
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That was really tough.
Yeah, so goodness, good.
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Memories.
Y'all had y'all had a great team
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that year so.
Yeah, yeah.
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And then?
Obviously went to rent and y'all
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did pretty good there.
Yeah, Yeah, we did.
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I think we did better my junior
year in 2016, in 2017, But then
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right after I left, I think they
won state, really.
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Yeah, it was pretty cool.
First state championship for Ren
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so.
Wow, good for.
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Them That's some good players
coming back.
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Yeah, it was fun.
So when did you get your first
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offer in high school?
So I got my first offer my
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sophomore year of high school, I
think it was the spring and.
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After the season, Yep, so I was.
At Ren at that time and I think
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I went down to, I know I went
down to Mercer University, which
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is in Macon, GA.
And so at this point I had no
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offers, but I had that sophomore
year film at Blue Ridge, which I
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did all right.
Like I was young and had
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potential, but it wasn't even
too crazy.
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I think I threw for like 1300
yards, had about 400 yards
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rushing, 6 touchdowns.
I think I had more interceptions
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than touchdowns, which is tough,
but but at the same time I just
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had a lot of potential and IA
lot of people don't know that,
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but I just started playing
quarterback the year before that
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your.
Freshman year was your first
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year.
So I was a receiver and like
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running back just because I was
fast all throughout, you know,
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growing up.
So I had that one year, not even
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really one year because I broke
my collarbone my my freshman
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year.
So I didn't really have a lot of
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time.
So I really put in a lot of
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work.
So software is kind of your.
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First go, my first go and I, I
had my our quarterback trainer,
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Coach Ramon, who helped me and
so I like really worked hard on
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that, you know, for multiple
times per week just trying to
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get better.
And so then so I had that
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Goodyear, I showed a lot of
potential.
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You know, I was a big guy and
athletic.
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And so Mercer offered me, which
is great my sophomore year.
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And then right after that South
Carolina State offered me.
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And so those were the first two
offers that I remember.
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Everyone after that outside of
like the bigger ones coming
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later, like my junior year, I
don't really remember but that.
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Was pretty good though to go
into your junior year knowing
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like hey, I've got potential to
play the next level.
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Oh yeah, yeah, that was a goal
of mine for a long time is to
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play college football and win
the national championship.
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Wasn't able to do that last
goal, but same time it did mean
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a lot just knowing that the
college coaches were starting to
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acknowledge me and.
And after my junior years,
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really whenever I started to get
a lot more when.
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You get a USC offer.
That was, I think it was after
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my junior year.
So yeah, I was that spring of my
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junior year, got the offer and
then after that Tennessee
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offered me.
Yeah, Tennessee, Duke offered
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me.
And those are like the three
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main schools that I was like
really, I was, I think after
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Caroline offered me, I, it was a
spring that year.
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I committed that summer because
I knew I just wanted to stay in
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state and Coach Moschamp was
building something great that I
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want to be a part of.
And then, so then after that,
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that's whenever Tennessee and
Duke were really trying hard to
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make me flip nice.
And so there's a bunch of
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stories.
I, I literally just saw
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goodness.
What's his name?
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He's he's the DBS coach right
now for Virginia Tech, but he
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was the DBS coach at at Duke.
OK.
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You were in his recruiting area.
Yes, Coach Jones.
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Derrick Jones.
And so he was at Duke at the
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time and before signing day, you
know, the next year, they kept
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recruiting the whole year, even
though I was committed to
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Carolina.
And, like, they were like really
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trying to get me to flip.
And yeah, they didn't.
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But he was going all the way
throughout signing day and was
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like, really trying to get me to
go.
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And I saw him at a conference a
month ago and we were able to
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talk about it.
And he was like, I could never
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get you to come to do it was fun
talking to him.
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A.
Couple years later, so before we
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dive into what you're doing
currently at Banner Player
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Development and Original Design,
I do know a lot of the audience
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is going to be wondering or
wanting to hear more about your
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experience at Carolina and just
learn more about you.
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So what was the most difficult
part from transitioning from
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high school football to college
football?
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Now let's get back to our guest.
I think it was the mindset shift
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because like obviously in high
school, you're like, you know,
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you're still kid, you're having
fun, you're, you know, growing
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up.
And so I already had that
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mindset where I was a little bit
different in the way of like I
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had that goal to play in
college.
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You had that training mentality.
I was really working hard and so
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I was, I was prepared for it.
But once you get to college,
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specifically the SEC, it's like
a different kind of level.
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And so it wasn't anything new to
me, but it was just the
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consistency of that mindset.
So for four years, it's like if
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you want to be good, if you want
to succeed, you have to have
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that same mindset consistently.
You can't just like in high
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school, you can have it, hey,
I'm going to have that mindset
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during the season and I'm going
to go vacation.
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All this kind of stuff like you
just can't do that, like to be
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successful at that level.
And so I think the consistency
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of that mindset.
I have friends and former
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teammates are not playing in the
NFL that, you know, JC Horn,
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Javon, Ken Law, Debo Samuel,
Bryan Edwards, like that.
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Dylan Long on that.
They had that mindset and it was
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like it was just nothing else
matters, which is really
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challenging because like
obviously there's more to life
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than football, but I think that
challenge of of the consistency
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part of it was the toughest
part.
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So they had it kind of like
built in them that mentality to
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work hard and win and just that
discipline.
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Yeah.
They had the discipline, they
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had the commitment, they had
that competitiveness, which all
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those things I had as well.
But it was the, I think for
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them, it was, you know,
opportunity met, you know, they
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were able to meet that
opportunity with performance and
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they were able to really, you
know, perform well at that, at
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that level and then obviously
make it to the next level and
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thrive there.
So it was really encouraging to
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be around those guys because I
had that kind of same energy.
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But at the same time, knowing
that like success isn't defined
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by one specific measure, you
know, it's like everybody has a
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different journey.
And so it's kind of cool now to
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be able to talk to them and see
what they're doing and being
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successful and see what, you
know, other people like myself
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who might not have made it to
the league, how you know, it's
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all combined and it's all about
that brotherhood and love.
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Not necessarily The Who has the
most money or who who who made
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it the furthest, the longest
NFL.
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It's that family approach which
is to me the most.
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Important it's pretty cool.
You'll still have that you'll
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still talk to each other and
have that relationship.
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When you look back on your first
day at Carolina, so you in high
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school, you were the best guy on
your team.
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You're the best quarterback in
the state and then you get your
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first day at Carolina and
there's all kinds of talent
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there.
What was that like?
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It was really tough.
I think the obviously coming in,
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there's already a starter and so
it's like.
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Who was the starter when you?
Were his name is Jake Bentley.
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Yeah, OK, I remember.
He's a good friend of mine and
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he's still stay in touch.
He's now the head coach at high
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school in Rock Hill.
So I'm proud of him and we still
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stay in touch to this day.
And so like, it's like you want
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to compete and you want that job
at the same time like respecting
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him and and learning a lot from
him and all the other
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quarterbacks too.
That's a new for.
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That's new for you because you
always start.
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Yeah, yeah.
And so it's a, it's a new
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adjustment.
And so I think that adjustment
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was probably the hardest part.
And then just confidence, you
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know, like knowing, you know,
having that confidence and
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building that confidence
whenever you might not get as
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many opportunities at the
beginning, obviously you're not
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on the first team.
I whenever I was there, I was
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not even on the on the second
team.
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And so you have to like, you
know, with the opportunity, you
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have to be able to meet that
opportunity with execution.
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And a lot of times whenever you
don't execute, which a lot of
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former athletes know this, it's
really hard to build that
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confidence up to continue to
perform.
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And so it's like, it's like with
anything else, you have those
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great times of, of performance.
And there's also sometimes that
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you, you know, necessarily
didn't do as well.
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And so just being able to go
through both of those successes
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and failures with the mindset of
consistency, with the mindset
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of, you know, next plays most
important player.
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That's a good mindset.
Like I'm sure the coaches are
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always drilling that into you
and all that.
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Are there any mentors that stick
out to you, either players or
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just like off the field your
first couple years or during
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your career at Carolina?
Yeah, so when I got there, the
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director of player development
was a guy by the name Marcus
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Loudmore.
Oh yeah, he's.
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One of my that.
Sounds familiar?
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He's a he's a baller and love
him to death.
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And so he was, he was there and
so we got to know each other
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pretty well.
He was amazing, obviously
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amazing player, amazing guy.
And so he was really impactful
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to me as as a freshman.
And then he stepped from that
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step away from that role in the
corner.
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Shaw, another great man, stepped
into that player development
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role.
And he's another guy that, you
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know, still taught him to this
day and just a big influence in
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my life.
And both of those guys obviously
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had amazing careers, but to me,
what stands out to them, to me
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about them is they're just who
they are outside of football.
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And what I was able to glean in
their heart for other people
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behind them to grow and learn,
you know, and it wasn't just all
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about them.
And so I was able to learn a lot
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from them.
And you know, like you talked
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about with Banner player
development is a lot of those
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lessons that I learned from
those two guys.
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Obviously they were doing at the
college level for college
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athletes inspired me to be able
to help sort of transition what
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I learned at the SEC level down
to middle and high school
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athletes.
Nice.
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Well, that's quite the
opportunity there, learning from
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someone that was mentored by
Marcus Lattermore and Connor
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Shaw.
What about your first game day
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experience?
What was that like?
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Yeah.
I mean, it was crazy.
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I mean, I think we played our
first game in 2017 at Bank of
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America Stadium in Charlotte.
Oh nice, I was that UNC.
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I think we played NC State.
NC State, OK.
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We beat them, which is great.
And so that was a really fun
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environment and NC State got a
had a good program, we had a
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good team.
And so there's just, I mean,
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countless amount of memories
from the from that first game
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all the way throughout my whole
career.
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One of the favorite ones that I
had was, I think it was my
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junior year before my injury, I
was able to play quarterback
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against Clemson at home at
Williams, Bryce.
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So I got a drive there and that
was really fun and being able to
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play against, you know, the team
from where I was.
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Yeah.
So it was a cool moment.
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That is pretty sweet.
Yeah.
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When you look back on your time
at Carolina, obviously there's
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all kinds of temptation for for
athletes and there's a lot of
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guys that aren't believers.
Yeah.
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How did you stay true to your
faith?
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You're not.
And how difficult was it to do
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so?
Yeah, it's a really good
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question.
So in 2013, so I was 15 years
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old at the time, I knew I needed
Jesus, like I knew I just needed
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his forgiveness, his love, his
kindness.
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And so I remember in that
moment, like just yielding to
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the Lord and was born again,
which is beautiful.
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And so I started following Jesus
from that moment and really was
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passionate about my teammates
knowing Jesus and just an
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evangelistic gifting Lord gave
me and just started wanting all
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my teammates at Wren and Blue
Ridge and Wren to know him.
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And so took a lot of my
teammates to church.
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And you know, it was always
talking about the Lord and it
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was beautiful.
And then that carried through
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all the way through my time at
South Carolina And so just going
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after the Lord.
But I remember in 2020,
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obviously COVID happened and
that gave me an A lot of
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opportunity to spend a lot of
time with the Lord in the secret
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place, just me and him and in
prayer.
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And I remember he met me in a
new beautiful way that was
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revolving around the word
intimacy.
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And for so long I was focused
on, you know, obviously
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forgiveness of sin and of, you
know, the Lord saving me.
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And then now like my passion for
other people to know him, which
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obviously is beautiful, but for
in some, in some ways I was
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neglecting a lot of the, the
main point of what I believe
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Jesus came to do, which was to
restore us back to proper
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fellowship and union with the
Father.
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How are you neglecting it?
I was focusing on what I could
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do for the Lord more than
receiving His love for me.
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And so it was so much focused on
what can I do, how can I share
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this with another person, which
obviously are good things.
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But what I've come to find out
is that the most important thing
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is that the order is correct.
A pastor named Damon Thompson,
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who I really look up to has said
before, beholding is the means
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of becoming.
And so it totally that's kind of
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phrasing.
That mindset of a beloved
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identity shifted everything in
my heart because for so long it
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was about doing it was about
what can I do to become more of
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a good Christian.
And it shifted to I'm going to
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behold Jesus in that 2020 moment
and then encounter with the with
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the Lord, I'm going to behold
his beautiful faith and behold
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the glory, the land of God who
took away the sin of the world
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and loves me.
And from that, I'm going to
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become all he wants me to
become.
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I'm going to like the scriptures
talk about being being molded
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from one level of glory to
another level glory into the
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image of Jesus.
And so that shift was huge.
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I think another big thing, part
of that was just a reliance the
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Holy Spirit and those moments
and just diving deeper into the
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Lord's heart for me to
experience Him on an intimate
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level.
A personal level that was
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centered around that rather than
you know what to do for.
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Him, a big part of my faith
journey was having community for
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the first time, which was really
kind of introduced to me at
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Gauntlet through screen.
I was like, wow, there's guys my
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age that are like following the
Lord and passionate about it and
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genuine about it.
And that was well, like pretty
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much the first time I've been
introduced to that.
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But going to Carolina, was there
any moments where you didn't
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have that community or you might
have felt alone in your in your
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walk?
Yeah, definitely.
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I think I know.
I bounce around your question.
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I was able to answer the
question about the time at
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Carolina.
But so I think it was there was
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definitely times where obviously
if you're following the Lord,
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it's not going to be the most
popular thing and there's going
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to be things that comes up,
comes up and temptations and
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things like that.
But to your point, the
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importance of community,
different people who are, you
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know, on the same page and are
going after the same, same
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thing.
You are so important.
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And so obviously within
football, it's a lot of people
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are going after football, going
after success, and obviously you
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can do that.
But at the same time, I had
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amazing group of people around
me in Columbia when I got to
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Carolina that helped me, that
guided me, that loved me.
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And then also, you know, it's
just beautiful that throughout
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my time at Carolina, that same
passion for my teammates to know
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him obviously was still there.
And so I started to lead what we
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called Rosewood Ministry, which
the house that we met in was on
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Rosewood.
If you're in Columbia, you know
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where it's at.
But on Rosewood, we would get
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together.
And at first we just met in the
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team meeting room with a couple
guys.
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We just sought the Lord and, and
got together.
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And from there over the next
three years while I was there.
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Yeah.
And you know, we just, I mean,
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we, we saw some amazing things.
It got the point where, you
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know, some teammates were born
again and we, they were baptized
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in the, in the cold tub.
So just a beautiful life change
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00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,240
more than anything, just
honoring his presence, honoring
450
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,280
the Lord's presence of, you
know, we'd get there.
451
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,680
We had, we had to be there.
I think we had morning practice.
452
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,960
We had to be there at like 6:30
in the morning, everybody in the
453
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door.
So we would get there like 5:15,
454
00:22:32,120 --> 00:22:34,600
we'd go in the team room and all
lights would be off and we'd
455
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,240
just put on worship and just
seek the glory of the Lord.
456
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,280
And some of the most powerful
encounters I've ever had were in
457
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:45,200
that team meeting room with five
to 10 athletes just on their
458
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,040
face before the Lord, just
seeking his glory.
459
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,760
And some amazing stories that,
Oh my goodness, I can go on
460
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,160
forever about the glory of the
Lord and his presence coming in
461
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,320
those moments where we were so
desperate for him that, I mean,
462
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,560
I'm telling you, one of the guys
that came in, I think, I think
463
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:04,560
he was born again in that room
and just met the love of the
464
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,400
love of God.
Just met him in that moment
465
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:10,160
after practice.
He, you know, we were always
466
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,840
shook because the glory and the
Lord was so present.
467
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,520
We, we got back from practice
and I saw my teammate just sit
468
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,400
in the locker room like this and
just like shook.
469
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,760
Like he just had practice.
We just had two hour practice
470
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,880
and he was shook to his core
because of the encounter he had
471
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,320
with the Lord.
He was like changed everything.
472
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,960
And so started that.
And then now like, I think it's
473
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,080
continuing to go and obviously,
you know, I'm not there anymore.
474
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,720
But that was something that to
your point of community was so
475
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:38,240
important that I was able to
sort of help, you know, go
476
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:42,600
before and and and lead.
And it blessed me having not
477
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:47,120
just people at church, but I
thought the Lord directing me to
478
00:23:47,120 --> 00:23:49,120
creating the church because the
church obviously isn't a
479
00:23:49,120 --> 00:23:50,040
building.
We go to it.
480
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:51,880
We are the church, we are the
body.
481
00:23:52,120 --> 00:23:55,000
And so bringing church to the
environment of the football
482
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,720
team, the facility to work.
We are the body and that was
483
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,320
something that was really.
Huge.
484
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,280
How did you become a leader off
the field even when you weren't
485
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,880
necessarily always a leader on
the field?
486
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,960
Where'd you get that confidence?
Good.
487
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,200
Question So I think it comes
down to identity, you know, like
488
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,760
knowing who you are and
obviously get things that the
489
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,320
Lord's given you and you know,
given me to just operate in.
490
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,280
That is like, obviously I didn't
earn any of that.
491
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:19,840
It's just sort of like how the
Lord made me.
492
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,920
And so I think it's the grace of
the Lord in the favor of the
493
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:27,320
Lord, but the same time, the
confidence that comes through
494
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:33,080
time of the Lord speaking his
identity over me and that
495
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:38,040
identity as his son and his
beloved, beloved, righteous son.
496
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,760
And it has nothing to do with
what I do.
497
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,120
It's by his grace and by his
blood and by his body.
498
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,440
And so as I receive that and
continue to receive that, I
499
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:50,880
believe that yields a confidence
to walk in the gifts in the
500
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:56,640
different places that Lords put
put us that, like I said before,
501
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,880
it goes beyond anything that I
ever did to earn it.
502
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,240
Wow, that's incredible.
You obviously had an awesome
503
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,760
four years at Carolina.
How difficult was it to
504
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,040
transition away from football
into civilian life?
505
00:25:09,360 --> 00:25:12,200
It's a big shift.
And so that's a lot of why I'm
506
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,280
so passionate about helping
middle and high school athletes
507
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,680
with Banner is because I knew
how challenging it was for me as
508
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,600
a college athlete where we did
have the support, you know, like
509
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,840
we were just talking about with
Marcus and Connor and so many
510
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,800
other people that it still was
so challenging of making that
511
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:33,360
shift of, you know, just our
identity, the the beautiful and
512
00:25:33,360 --> 00:25:39,600
the crazy part is that as much
as the Lord's doing, I still had
513
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,320
never have had it together.
And so I still don't have it all
514
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,840
together.
And so it's like, I'm like.
515
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,840
It's say it louder for all the.
People who don't understand.
516
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,280
None of us got it all together,
yeah.
517
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:55,120
It's just like it's so important
to to have the people there to
518
00:25:55,120 --> 00:25:58,920
support you and like those
people who might be able to have
519
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,160
been a little bit further along
the way than you to be able to
520
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,960
help you in that process of
transition.
521
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:08,200
So I remember, you know, after
four years of being defined as a
522
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,120
Carolina football player, that
being, you know.
523
00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:12,360
In your life being defined as a
football player.
524
00:26:12,360 --> 00:26:16,480
Exactly.
You know, 20 years and I don't
525
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,000
know, 20 years.
I wasn't playing football
526
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,240
whenever I was like 3, but you
know what I mean?
527
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:24,000
You know, it's like for so long
and then that is no longer part
528
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,800
of your identity.
I mean, you've been working for
529
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,000
it pretty much every day.
Like as a football player, you
530
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,200
think about it pretty much every
day.
531
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,160
That's all.
You're just done.
532
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,440
Yeah, and so that was really
big, a big shift.
533
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,440
And you know, the Lord did some
amazing things in my heart
534
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,800
specifically to that I that
identity piece.
535
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,760
That was just times of struggle,
times of, you know, achievement.
536
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,880
But that transition is is really
tough.
537
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:55,640
So you started original design
within months of graduating from
538
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,880
Carolina.
What sparked that idea?
539
00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,880
And and for those that aren't
familiar, what is original
540
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,480
design?
Yeah, so I actually started
541
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,360
original design in 2020 when I'm
all still playing.
542
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,960
So it was my, it was sort of
like the end of my football
543
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,560
career.
But original design is all about
544
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:15,600
helping underserved children in
Columbia know their original
545
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,840
design to have fellowship, the
Father son of spirit.
546
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,120
And so a lot of what we've been
talking about of what the Lord
547
00:27:21,120 --> 00:27:25,280
was doing in my heart, the Lord
showed me that that wasn't just
548
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,120
for me.
It was for me to receive at the
549
00:27:27,120 --> 00:27:28,840
beginning, but it also was the
gospel.
550
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:33,360
It's that in the in in the
beginning in the garden, you
551
00:27:33,360 --> 00:27:35,800
know Adam and Eve before Sinner
of the world were walking the
552
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,080
cool today with the Lord and the
command of the Lord was to be
553
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:43,440
fruitful and multiply and to
enjoy him and obviously the sin
554
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,640
end of the world and we all were
to see that we all have to play
555
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,440
a part in that of that
deception.
556
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,360
And so now the Father is in has
sent Jesus to restore us back to
557
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,680
that original design.
Now we on earth as his as his
558
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:59,440
bride as the bride of Christ are
now bringing forth the Kingdom
559
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,280
of heaven and get to be
ambassadors for Jesus.
560
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,760
And instead of saying, I am
going to say this prayer and
561
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,920
then I'm going to go to heaven
one day, we get to believe the
562
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:13,960
true gospel that Jesus has
defeated every enemy and now we
563
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,200
get to partner with him and
bring his Kingdom to earth.
564
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,840
And so that's what I'm all
about.
565
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,120
That's what I want to do.
And so original design is a big
566
00:28:21,120 --> 00:28:24,920
part of that.
And so we practically what we do
567
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:29,280
is we help children between the
ages of 8 to 12 in Columbia,
568
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,720
boys and girls, to have a mentor
and who loves Jesus.
569
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,600
And so we partner about 20 kids
each year.
570
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,880
Where do you find the kids
typically?
571
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,760
Yeah.
So we find the kids in the city.
572
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,320
So we have partnerships with the
city of Columbia and also social
573
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,040
workers.
And so we have the kids about 20
574
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,880
each year and then they are
entered into our year long
575
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,840
mentorship program where they
had that one to one mentor and
576
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:59,200
we walk with them throughout the
whole year and have a full day
577
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:03,200
camp or a certain event every
other month of the year.
578
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,960
Wow, every other month.
That's quite a commitment.
579
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:10,120
So it's a big commitment for the
mentors, but also the it's not
580
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,240
just one-on-one, it's it's
one-on-one in the sense of
581
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,560
mentor to camper, but it's a
group setting.
582
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,640
So they're not just getting that
one to one support.
583
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,800
They're also getting that
communal aspect of what you were
584
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,840
talking about earlier that is so
important for young people to to
585
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,760
thrive.
When was the first event?
586
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,440
And so you you said you started
doing it while you were still
587
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,320
playing.
Like that's absolutely insane
588
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,640
that a student athlete has the
capacity to add on to that.
589
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,320
What was the process of starting
it?
590
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,200
And then what was the first
event that y'all launched with
591
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:37,920
it?
Yeah, so it actually started,
592
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,800
you know, in the secret place
whenever we were, you know,
593
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,240
during COVID, which was which is
also that revelation he gave me.
594
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,400
But then the next thing is I
took it to Connor Shaw and the
595
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,840
player developments we started
talking about in meetings and
596
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,440
just me and him having a
conversation and he's like Jay,
597
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,520
I was like, I probably need to
wait until I'm, you know, know
598
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:57,880
what I'm doing to start
something like this.
599
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,280
Like what are you waiting on?
I was like, I don't know how to
600
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:02,680
start a non profit.
He said, let me help you.
601
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,840
So Connor helped me and then I
had a meeting Coach Muschamp and
602
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,440
he it was huge support got me
connected to the mayor and a lot
603
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,800
of other people to help me sort
of get this thing jump started.
604
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,800
And so to answer your question,
we had in a fundraising event in
605
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:21,760
2020 and before our first year
of programming, which was in
606
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,360
2021.
So we raised $30,000 to help
607
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:28,280
start the first original design
year in 2020.
608
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,480
And then jump started with I
think it's 23 kids the first
609
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:38,440
year throughout all of 2021.
So that was four years ago where
610
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,280
some of those kids now, I guess
they're in high school now at
611
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,200
this.
Point They're getting into high
612
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,840
school and it's going to be fun
to see them come back and
613
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,720
hopefully be mentors one day.
That's awesome what you are
614
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,880
doing there in Columbia and cool
to see how much you're giving
615
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:53,040
back to the community there.
So now you're balancing that
616
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,640
with a for profit and banner
player development.
617
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,600
How do you balance the two and
what are some of the challenge
618
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,840
for some of the differences in
the challenges between leading
619
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,000
both?
Yeah, it's a really good
620
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,560
question because I wouldn't be
able to do it without the people
621
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,440
around me.
So with original design, I was
622
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,440
wearing every hat for so many.
Obviously, when you start
623
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:12,880
something, you're doing
everything right.
624
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,720
And so I was doing everything.
And then just the Lord blessed
625
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:18,880
us and people started to, you
know, see what we're doing and
626
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,760
believe in it.
And I received a lot of amazing
627
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,920
donations and continue to to do
that.
628
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,280
And so we're growing.
And so with that, we've been
629
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,880
able to hire a program director.
She was part time with us last
630
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,280
year.
Her name is Emily Germstadt.
631
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,880
She's amazing.
She has an MSW.
632
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,240
So is, I mean, absolutely the
perfect person.
633
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,320
So she is full time with us this
year for original design.
634
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,400
So she's running all the
programming and I'm doing like
635
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,080
the the fundraising, the leading
the business and everything with
636
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,360
original design.
So I'm able, I said that because
637
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,960
that's what empowers me to be
able to also do the things the
638
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,600
Lord's call me to do in other
spaces too.
639
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,400
So still leading original design
and that's a, that's on the
640
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,400
forefront of my mind pretty much
every day and leading Emily to
641
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,400
do that as well.
And then with Banner, it gives
642
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,920
me a lot of time to be able to,
you know, build on those
643
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,040
relationships and start, you
know, everything with Banner.
644
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,400
So what are some of the services
or some of the clients that
645
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,120
you're working with with Banner?
Yeah.
646
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:21,560
So Banner, just to give you a
little bit of insight before
647
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,920
about telling the clients that
we have, Banner is all about
648
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,960
former college athletes
empowering the next generation
649
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,280
to thrive both in sports and in
life.
650
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,320
And so next generation being
middle and high school athletes.
651
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,640
And so the four pillars that we
have in helping these middle
652
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:43,360
high school athletes are centred
around a lot of what the college
653
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,400
athlete would receive.
It's what I received.
654
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,840
And so giving back that to the
next generation.
655
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:52,480
So those 4 pillars are character
and leadership development.
656
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,560
Second one is recruiting support
for those athletes who want to
657
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,480
play in college.
The third one is building your
658
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,280
brand and obviously with an IL
now.
659
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,280
You know it's.
Making us away.
660
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,280
And so you got to be prepared to
to know exactly how to build
661
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,800
your brand, how to do that
without ego and you know, all
662
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,640
those different things.
And so that's the third one.
663
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,600
And the fourth one is life
beyond sports.
664
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:19,200
So like we like we talked about,
you know, the ball starts, stops
665
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,880
bouncing, you know, eventually
and you have to be prepared for
666
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,000
that.
And you know, a lot of things
667
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,080
that we do are mock interviews,
you know, how to be prepared
668
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,400
with for a interview with a
future employer.
669
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:32,640
How do you look someone in the
eyes?
670
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,160
How do you shake their hand?
Resume building it.
671
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,640
Was a middle and high schooler.
Yeah.
672
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,360
Teach them how to do that.
So it's, it's really hitting on
673
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,720
those things before they need
them.
674
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:48,280
And so now they're growing into
those people that's that's
675
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,200
holistic further than just their
sport.
676
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,920
You're turning them into young
men, yes.
677
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,600
Young men and young women,
because this isn't just for
678
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:55,880
football.
This is although I played
679
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,560
football and this is for all
sports.
680
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,520
And one of my good friends and
mentors, his name is Dylan
681
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,920
Thompson.
He's the director of player
682
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,520
development at Washington
Commanders right now.
683
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,440
And so I was on the phone with
him and he was talking about,
684
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,920
you know, a lot of what we're
doing with Banner and what he's
685
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:15,760
doing in the NFL.
It's about seeing what's
686
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,400
invisible, right?
Everybody likes to see what's
687
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:23,280
visible right now.
How can a when my son or my my
688
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,600
daughter who's a high school
athlete coming home to after a
689
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:27,800
workout, they're going to be
sweaty.
690
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,000
You know, they're going to be,
you know, changing the clothes
691
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,120
and it's going to be like, hey,
I got I got some work in today.
692
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,199
And the parent goes perfect,
that investment is working
693
00:34:35,199 --> 00:34:39,239
because I see that visually.
And so with Banner, your athlete
694
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,159
as they come home aren't going
to be sweating unless they're
695
00:34:42,159 --> 00:34:44,120
doing something completely.
Wrong.
696
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,120
Exactly.
So now it's seeing the value in
697
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,239
the sense of what's the
important thing down the road in
698
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,159
40 years, how do you want your
child to be developed to where
699
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,880
after you're gone, they're set
up to succeed.
700
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,520
They're set up to treat the
janitor.
701
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:00,680
That's just as much as as well
as they're going to treat the
702
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,520
CEO.
And it's those mindsets that
703
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,560
just don't come from training.
They come from intentional
704
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:10,480
development that these former
college athletes and myself are
705
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:14,080
being able to build to help set
up the next generation to learn
706
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:15,200
those.
Yeah, I don't think people are
707
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,320
aware of how difficult it is for
players to transition when
708
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,840
sports are done.
Like, I'm sure you'll have
709
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,560
speakers all the time telling
you like, hey, you need to be
710
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,040
ready for whenever football's
done.
711
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,760
And 90% of the room's not paying
any attention to that.
712
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,600
For sure.
That's they're not.
713
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:29,840
They're not talking to me.
Yeah.
714
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,480
But there's just so much
strength, even guys that make it
715
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,320
to the NFL, I mean, the average
careers, three years, like
716
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:36,640
that's not enough to live off
of.
717
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,240
And so also, you've been doing
this entire life and what do you
718
00:35:39,240 --> 00:35:40,000
do?
Yeah.
719
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,000
And that's an incredibly
difficult transition.
720
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,920
I I wasn't in that, in those
shoes.
721
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,400
I just played high school
football, wanted to play in
722
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,600
college, and it was difficult
for me to transition.
723
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,160
I didn't even have those four or
five extra years.
724
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,440
So I can only imagine, but I
don't think parents are aware of
725
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,640
the necessity of preparing for
afterwards, especially not a lot
726
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,440
of the athletes.
For sure.
727
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,280
And I think it's, I would even
argue that it's even more
728
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,040
important for the high
schoolers, like in your
729
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,120
situation of like you had that
dream and for everyone,
730
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,080
obviously it ends at some point,
but it's like you don't have
731
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,680
that support.
So in college, if you make if
732
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,640
you go to South Carolina or
Tennessee or Florida or wherever
733
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,560
might be, you're going to get
that support.
734
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,000
So I had that and it still was
challenge.
735
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,320
That's great that y'all have
that used to.
736
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,400
They didn't do that, Yeah.
That's great.
737
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,000
But now for Someone Like You
back in the day, how cool would
738
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,800
have been for you to be able to
have someone to say, hey, I know
739
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,880
I've been there before and the
disappointments are the the
740
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,120
successes.
And now like helping you walk
741
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,320
through that.
I would even argue to your point
742
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,440
it's it's almost more important
for high schoolers to have that.
743
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,400
I would have loved to have had
that resource.
744
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,600
I'll say that.
Yeah, because, yeah, it's
745
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,720
absolutely a difficult
transition when you look at some
746
00:36:47,720 --> 00:36:50,120
of the players, the young
student athletes that you're
747
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,120
working with, what some of their
schedules look like on a
748
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,720
day-to-day and how young are
some of them starting to train
749
00:36:55,720 --> 00:36:56,280
at.
Yeah.
750
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,760
So obviously it varies for
every.
751
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,800
Athlete.
I've heard, I've heard kids.
752
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,920
I mean, you hear of Tiger Woods?
Oh, yeah, there's videos of him
753
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:05,800
like putting at the age of
three.
754
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,720
Yeah, you know, there's
obviously it depends.
755
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,320
Yeah, it's there's they start
early and.
756
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,360
Start the crib.
Yeah, for sure.
757
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:18,160
And one of them that is one of
our clients is, I mean, just so
758
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,760
focused on baseball.
I mean, just locked in almost
759
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,080
too much.
And that's something that I'm
760
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,440
working with them too is like
your identity is further than
761
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,120
baseball.
Yeah.
762
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,600
And then there's others that,
you know, are, you know,
763
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:34,320
learning what it looks like to
have a schedule on the calendar.
764
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:35,800
So you're going into ninth
grade.
765
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,320
And so we have.
Custom plan for each individual
766
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,080
kid.
Depending on the, the specific
767
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,320
plan that they're on, if they're
in our inner circle, which is
768
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,760
more of our, you know,
one-on-one coaching with me, you
769
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:51,800
know, they, they have those
one-on-one meetings and, you
770
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,000
know, we're working through
like, hey, you have to let me
771
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,520
know your schedule because I'm
going to tell you, you know,
772
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:57,840
we're going to figure out that
time.
773
00:37:58,240 --> 00:38:01,240
And then you can't just be like,
you know, the day before we
774
00:38:01,240 --> 00:38:03,920
like, oh, I had this game now.
And it's like, obviously if it
775
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,800
comes up, it's fine.
But it's like, it's just
776
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,960
learning those things that, you
know, you, you need to learn.
777
00:38:09,720 --> 00:38:12,200
Yeah, it's hard.
And so like just something small
778
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,720
like that to where it's setting
up the schedule and, and doing
779
00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:16,120
your chores and doing all that
stuff.
780
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,080
Obviously as you're younger
you're doing that and as you're
781
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,760
growing up learning, you know a
bunch of different things.
782
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,240
But we have, you know have those
one-on-one clients that I work
783
00:38:24,240 --> 00:38:27,520
with.
And then we also have a more
784
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,560
broad opportunity where we're
having a player development
785
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,760
conference this summer as well
as our player development
786
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,600
course, which is available for
any parent to the.
787
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:42,560
Course.
So the course was it's about 7
788
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:46,360
hours of content that I was the
main teacher who had a bunch of
789
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,360
other former athletes come in
and we broke down everything
790
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,120
with those 4 pillars.
And so we discussed all of that
791
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,840
and then one and just combine
all of our expertise to where
792
00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:02,440
now parents can invest into
their athletes future by, you
793
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,680
know, purchasing that for them
and walking with that through
794
00:39:04,720 --> 00:39:07,840
through them with it.
And then also we have school
795
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,880
partners right now on that
within high schools.
796
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,880
And so there's a couple
different ways from the
797
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,520
conference to buying that, the
parent buying the course for the
798
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:19,040
kid, doing the one-on-one
coaching with me.
799
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,800
So that's a little bit more
intensive.
800
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:25,320
And then the athletic programs
within high schools partnering
801
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,440
with us to where now the parent
doesn't have to invest in it.
802
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,560
Now the athletic department of
the booster club is.
803
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,400
And so it's sort of there's a
wide variety of how people are
804
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,480
being involved.
In high schools, there's so many
805
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:40,000
good opportunities like that to
just have extra education, like
806
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,800
the just the, the broad plan
education system that we have is
807
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,560
it's gets the job done,
whatever.
808
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,440
But I wish that we learned more
about entrepreneurship, about
809
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,200
finances, about player
development, just like more life
810
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,800
skills.
That would be such a, just a
811
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,320
blessing to have some of those
things talk to you as a high
812
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,720
schooler for sure.
So I'm I'm hoping that y'all get
813
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,040
get some high schools clients
and whatnot.
814
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,400
It'd be great.
It's gonna be awesome.
815
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,480
And you're working with some
schools in the Upstate,
816
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,200
Columbia, is it kind of all over
the state?
817
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:06,800
Yeah, it's all over the state
right now.
818
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:10,520
I have clients that are
individual, individual young
819
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:13,000
athletes from Greenville to
Columbia.
820
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:14,960
I don't have any in the lower
state right now.
821
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,000
And then schools wise, we have
two school partners right now
822
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,840
within in Columbia.
And so just up here, like I told
823
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,160
you earlier, I was meeting with
school in the Upstate.
824
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,800
And so just like, you know,
continuing that and the words
825
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,480
getting out.
And so one thing that I've, I've
826
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,720
sort of seen is that the coaches
and the athletic directors see
827
00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:38,880
the need, you know, they see the
need specifically with the, with
828
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:42,480
the college game coming down to,
you know, the high school game,
829
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,000
there's a great need.
And now it's just about how do
830
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,520
you feel that need and having
the right curriculum?
831
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:53,800
How has NIL affected high school
recruiting or just high school
832
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,640
kids?
In general, I think it's, it's
833
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:59,080
influenced a lot.
I think not only has there been,
834
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,000
I mean it's always been like
this, but like expectations for
835
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:06,600
kids, You know, they think that
they're going to be ACC football
836
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,640
player.
And obviously I love championing
837
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,480
all athletes.
But at the same time, it's like
838
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,440
good to have goals and
expectations, but also being
839
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,320
realistic to where if you don't
end up being an AC football
840
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:21,320
player, it's like not knowing,
not seeing yourself as a failure
841
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:22,800
because it's like.
Just so.
842
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,960
High the expectation.
It's like it's silly to put that
843
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,960
on yourself.
And I learned that too.
844
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,080
It's like there's a lot of
things that I would change going
845
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:31,880
back.
So I think there's always been
846
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,560
like that kind of like, you
know, challenge, But I think
847
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,000
with an IL now coming to college
and you know, the house
848
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,800
settlement and a lot of
different things now in the high
849
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,600
school level in South Carolina,
you can have a one year transfer
850
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,480
rule.
And so that just so now if you
851
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,280
Trent, you can, you can have a
one time transfer.
852
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:51,760
To new school without having to
move.
853
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:53,320
Yeah, OK.
That's because used to you'd
854
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:54,520
have to get a new address.
Exactly.
855
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,880
You had to move.
And so I mean, you see it just
856
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,040
moving, moving down.
And so, you know, the big time
857
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,320
high school recruits are having
NIL deals and stuff.
858
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:06,120
And really, yeah.
So it's it's interesting to see
859
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:07,520
how it's going to play.
Around, I should say, I'm not
860
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,000
surprised.
I mean, the private schools
861
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,760
would do that.
Back in the day, we lost a lot
862
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,680
of players to the local private
schools, so I won't get too far
863
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:15,960
into that.
But it's kind of always
864
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,000
happened.
But I guess now it's just more
865
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:22,200
open and more, I don't know,
thrown around or common I should
866
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,400
say.
But what is the the conference
867
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,400
that y'all are doing in July and
how can people get involved with
868
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,400
that?
Yeah, so we are actually trying
869
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,560
to nail down the date.
It's going to be June 12th or
870
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,360
July 14th.
Those are Saturdays.
871
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,640
And so that's going to be
available for all high school
872
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,720
athletes within the state.
And so we're also going to
873
00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,200
invite the parents of the
athletes, coaches and athletic
874
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,440
directors to come.
And the heart behind the
875
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,680
conference is just giving away
the value of what we're doing at
876
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,560
Banner and almost like an
introduction as we're getting
877
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,280
things, getting things rolling
and so.
878
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,680
Is it a camp or is it like show
up in like an actual conference
879
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,720
like you would see?
Yeah, it's an actual conference
880
00:43:00,720 --> 00:43:02,720
and so there's no athletic
activities with it.
881
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,960
It'll be from 10:00 in the
morning to three in the
882
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,640
afternoon, have lunch and we're
going to bring in big time
883
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:14,480
speakers to come in and and help
break down a lot of our pillars.
884
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:18,360
And so we'll have I'm planning
right now having a scout from
885
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,200
the Tampa Lake Bucks, a scout
from the Pittsburgh Pirates to
886
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:26,200
to my friends to talk about
recruiting and have my good
887
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,840
buddy Darian Rencher, who's a
former Clemson running back, an
888
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,400
entrepreneur.
He's going to be there.
889
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,720
We're going to have a former
college athlete panel is.
890
00:43:33,720 --> 00:43:35,320
The Pittsburgh Pittsburgh
Pirates.
891
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,800
Is that here?
Yeah, yeah.
892
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:41,000
And then we're going to have a
really, really well known
893
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,920
speaker things Will Baggett.
Come on, talk about building
894
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,320
your brand.
And then that used to not be a
895
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,000
thing your brand, you know, like
that's just where NIO is taking
896
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,320
over.
It's not, I shouldn't say,
897
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,720
taking over, but just making an
impact or change.
898
00:43:52,720 --> 00:43:55,160
For sure, Yeah.
So we're going to be doing that
899
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:59,640
and tickets are going to be $50.
And so there's going to be a
900
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:02,400
link eventually where we get
things going once we officially
901
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,600
finalize it.
But it's going to be in
902
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,280
Columbia.
And yeah, it's going to be a
903
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,280
great opportunity for really
everybody to get together and
904
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:11,960
grow and learn.
Absolutely.
905
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,120
So if someone listening wants to
get involved in original design
906
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,520
or maybe they are a parent or an
athlete wants to get involved in
907
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,240
banner, well, actually let's go
back to the original design.
908
00:44:21,240 --> 00:44:22,360
Sorry.
What are some of the needs
909
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:23,720
there?
What are some of the areas where
910
00:44:23,720 --> 00:44:25,040
people could get involved with
that?
911
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:29,840
Yeah.
So the first need is we have,
912
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,200
you know, around 15 to 20
campers each year.
913
00:44:32,720 --> 00:44:36,600
And so obviously we have
reoccurring donors and people
914
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,120
who have been sewing into our
into what we're doing, whether
915
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,480
it be one time or reoccurring
donors, but we have camper
916
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,160
sponsorships.
And so obviously it costs a lot
917
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,880
of money to to put on with what
we're doing to full time
918
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,200
employees as well.
So there's a lot of different
919
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,760
expenses that go into it.
And so one of the ways that
920
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,400
people can help is by sponsoring
one of our campers.
921
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:00,200
And that cost us $1500 for the
whole year.
922
00:45:00,720 --> 00:45:03,120
And so if someone wants to do
that, they can do that monthly
923
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:04,520
just.
Over 100 bucks a.
924
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,600
Month yeah, yeah, like a hundred
$125.00 a month or you can pay
925
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,040
the whole thing.
And so we're, we're doing that
926
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,520
every year.
And so, you know, you can donate
927
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:19,200
on our website, it's called
original designsc.org and we're
928
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,640
on social media and everything
like that.
929
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,040
And so that's like one of the
biggest ways as we like get into
930
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,880
this year.
Is there still campers that we
931
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:28,880
have not yet sponsored.
And so that and then getting
932
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:33,000
involved, I mean, there's one of
the biggest things is our need
933
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,920
for mentors.
And so, you know, the kids are
934
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,680
there, you know, we had that
access and we we see the kids
935
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,680
that have the need, but we can't
do what we do without amazing
936
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,840
mentors.
Are you only in Columbia?
937
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,800
Are you planning on expanding
anywhere else?
938
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,400
Right now we're in Columbia.
Who knows in the future what the
939
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:52,080
Lord can do, but so all of our
our year long program is
940
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,840
centered in Columbia.
But we do have mentors that come
941
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,760
from Greenville, the Upstate or
the lower state.
942
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,960
They just drive and we give them
gas money to come up every time.
943
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:05,160
But if you are above 18, if you
love Jesus and you have a
944
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,320
passion for kids and, and, and
want to, you know, be a mentor
945
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,600
to someone who might need it,
that's a huge way that you can
946
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,680
get involved.
And we have that those forms and
947
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:16,480
that info on our website as
well.
948
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,360
And so, and then as well, if you
just want to serve, you know
949
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,720
that mentor responsibility is a
commitment, right?
950
00:46:23,720 --> 00:46:26,000
So it's a whole year long of
like it is going to be you need
951
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:27,600
to have the time available to do
that.
952
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,240
But to be a support volunteer,
it's just, you know, whenever
953
00:46:31,240 --> 00:46:34,000
you can make it, you know,
there's our a list of our camps
954
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,960
and our events.
And if you want to come help put
955
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,600
out coolers or put up the tents
or you know, go get the food or
956
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,240
whatever might be to help make
the day happen.
957
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,080
That is a way to get involved
and with a little bit less
958
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,560
commitment.
So how do you balance both the
959
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,880
nonprofits and the for profit at
the same time?
960
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,960
But then also to, I want to link
that question with being a
961
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,640
previous student athlete was
your, I mean, obviously your
962
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:59,080
work life balance was crazy.
Do you feel like it's healthier
963
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:00,800
now?
Like how does it compare?
964
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,520
You're, you're wearing 2 hats
now is leading a nonprofit
965
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,120
leading a for profit?
How does that time commitment
966
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,920
compare to being a student
athlete and an SEC school?
967
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,440
Very similar, you know, it's
like.
968
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,920
Just as busy.
Oh yeah, just like I feel like
969
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,640
I'm more busy now because of the
two things.
970
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,800
But you know, it's just
different, is a little
971
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,680
different.
But it's like that mindset was
972
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,480
something that I had and there
was just like I had the
973
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:30,120
priorities of what I wanted to
do and and then the things that
974
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:32,200
were important to me and then
being able to value those
975
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,080
things.
And so it just looks a little
976
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,280
bit different now.
Leading original design and
977
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:41,040
banner and I've learned so much.
Just Lord's been showing me so
978
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:47,640
much about finding true rest in
him and building things in rest
979
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:51,040
and not in restlessness, which
is really challenging to do.
980
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,960
I'm sure you don't miss those
getting back home at 4:00 AM
981
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,600
after an awake it's.
Tough, which I do miss the crazy
982
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:02,960
thing as I do miss the the, you
know, hard workouts, even though
983
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:04,800
you know, a lot of people.
I don't miss that at all.
984
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,320
Like I wish I can go back to
that and just be be running one
985
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,240
10's and lifting tons of weight
in the morning at 5:00 AM with
986
00:48:12,240 --> 00:48:14,120
my teammates.
You know, it's just something
987
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,440
that's special, the.
Commodity involved in that.
988
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,200
Yeah, it's just beautiful.
It's a, it's a It's something
989
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,800
that you can't really.
Experience anywhere else and
990
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,240
it's like the bonding like with
your brothers during that time.
991
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,040
Actually on the way over here,
when I was leaving the office, I
992
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,120
ran into one of my former
teammates from high school.
993
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,360
He was in the parking lot and I
walked that parking lot every
994
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,480
day and he just been, his mom
works there and he just been
995
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,040
having to bring her something.
So it's just like I hadn't seen
996
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,640
him in 10 years.
But we just connect like right
997
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,680
away.
So it's like that brotherhood
998
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,840
just like is always there when
you work hard together.
999
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,480
So it's pretty cool.
That's really cool experience.
1000
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,880
It really is.
But yeah, going back to to
1001
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,680
banner player development, how
can people get involved with
1002
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,480
that?
Or if they want to be as a
1003
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:55,680
volunteer, like as a coach, or
if they want to get their kids
1004
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,280
involved, or if they're an
athlete that wants to get
1005
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,240
involved, how can they?
How can they find you?
1006
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,680
Yeah.
So on our Instagram, it's Banner
1007
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,080
PD as in player development.
We have that.
1008
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:08,320
And yeah, I'd love to, you know,
we have our website,
1009
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,680
whichisbannerpd.com.
And so there's a lot of ways to
1010
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,600
get involved there to where you
just reach out to me on the
1011
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,240
website or on social media and
I'd love to talk with you as far
1012
00:49:17,240 --> 00:49:22,120
as any of those 3 right now, we
don't necessarily have, you
1013
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,120
know, banner coaches as in
former athletes being a coach.
1014
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:27,880
It's just me right now.
But if this is something, if
1015
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,560
banner is something that like
you're like, that's what I'll,
1016
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,080
that's what I love.
That's what I want to do, just
1017
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,320
reach out to me.
And I've had probably about 10
1018
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,280
people do that already.
And so they're going to be
1019
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,600
helping with a conference.
And so there's different ways to
1020
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,120
get involved there.
There's a lot of former
1021
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:45,920
teammates or.
Not former teammates, but more
1022
00:49:46,240 --> 00:49:48,840
former athletes, gotcha, who are
from all around the country,
1023
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,880
who, you know, have seen what
we're doing and wanting to get
1024
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:52,320
involved.
Yeah, A little bit on a tangent
1025
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,520
before we close out, What are
some of the things that some of
1026
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:58,000
your teammates have gone into
after football, like some of the
1027
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,640
careers that they've chosen?
You know, I think obviously one
1028
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,400
league playing in the NFL, Yeah
2.
1029
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:06,760
Outside the league, Real.
Estate.
1030
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,320
No.
Let's see, what else.
1031
00:50:13,720 --> 00:50:16,600
Sure, a lot of coaching.
Coaching, yeah, that's one.
1032
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:22,440
Yeah, that's a big one.
And then maybe a little bit of
1033
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:23,640
consulting.
OK.
1034
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,640
Yeah, nice.
So those are probably the top 4.
1035
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,440
Yeah, Real estate's a big one,
too.
1036
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,040
Yeah, that's where a lot of
athletes go into.
1037
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,600
There's a guy I follow, he's a
previous athlete of Southern
1038
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,560
Cal.
He's pretty big name Kyle
1039
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:36,880
Matthews.
He does something very similar
1040
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:40,200
to this business podcast, but
he's started a real estate firm,
1041
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,840
so I could just I see where
there's a good transition from
1042
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,720
an athlete to do in real estate.
That's kind of another thing
1043
00:50:46,720 --> 00:50:47,920
too.
Like I kind of wish I knew more
1044
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,240
of the options.
So like when my football career
1045
00:50:50,240 --> 00:50:52,200
ended, per SE, like I was trying
to play my freshman year at
1046
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,840
Clemson, that didn't work out.
I just looked down and saw, hey,
1047
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,200
I'm a student, I'm just going to
be the best student I can.
1048
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,960
I just kind of went on my major
and took it.
1049
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:00,560
I didn't really think about
anything else.
1050
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,040
Like I just kind of fell into
engineering.
1051
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:06,400
But all I'd say you've had
plenty of mentors along the way
1052
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,200
so far.
What impact has that made on you
1053
00:51:09,240 --> 00:51:11,960
and what is the best advice that
you can remember receiving?
1054
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:17,000
I've for sure had amazing people
in my life and I would not be
1055
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,760
where I am at all without
without all of them.
1056
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,160
For my family to, you know,
Connor Marcus, which I already
1057
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:27,920
mentioned to the pastors in my
life, to Greg Demare, my
1058
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,880
spiritual father and a lot of
friends.
1059
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:37,480
You know, I think as far as the
best piece of advice is, I would
1060
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,600
go back to what I said earlier
about beholdings of the means of
1061
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:49,320
becoming and really diving into
an opening up your heart to how
1062
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:53,800
much the Lord loves you and not
letting that just be something
1063
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,320
that, you know, I've already
heard that, you know, it's like,
1064
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,480
Oh, I got that, you know, like I
know that Lord loves me.
1065
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,520
It's like one of my friends has
said that before.
1066
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,000
It's like, if that's the, if
that's the response, I know
1067
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,560
there's more to go deeper in.
If the response is all I already
1068
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,040
know that like check, you know,
why are you asking me that?
1069
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,680
Why I didn't talk And there's
that's an invitation to go
1070
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,480
deeper because whenever you
experience the love of Ababa,
1071
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:20,320
the father, there's no end.
And so there's always there's
1072
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:24,600
just this call to go deeper.
And so that's what I'd encourage
1073
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:29,000
people with is just, and like,
let that hit you, like open up
1074
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,440
yourself, open up your spirit,
let the Holy Spirit come in and
1075
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:35,680
like really reveal how much he
loves you, how much he adores
1076
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,960
you, how much he's always been
with you and how he's jealous
1077
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:40,640
for you.
And, and from there, I think a
1078
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:41,880
lot of beautiful things will
flow and.
1079
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,400
That's beautiful.
Yeah, there's a absolutely no
1080
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,880
end to it.
You will never fully comprehend
1081
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:49,560
the love of.
Christ, yes.
1082
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,200
You can't fully comprehend it,
just like how with the Bible,
1083
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,240
like I read the same passage 10
times and and hear 10 different
1084
00:52:55,240 --> 00:52:57,280
things.
There's no end to the the wisdom
1085
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,440
in that.
Yes, Jay, thanks so much for
1086
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,280
joining me today.
Man, that was a great talk and
1087
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,880
I'm excited to share this one.
Yes, man.
00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,040
And so a mindset, well, I just
got to win, drive down on the
2
00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:08,320
score.
Obviously there's more to life
3
00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,680
than football.
Difficult was it to transition
4
00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,080
away from football into civilian
life.
5
00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,480
Success isn't defined by one
specific measure.
6
00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:17,960
Everybody has a different
journey.
7
00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:20,640
It's all combined and it's all
about that brotherhood and love,
8
00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,000
not necessarily The Who has the
most money or who made it the
9
00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,960
furthest, the longest.
NFL original design is all about
10
00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:30,840
helping underserved children in
Columbia know their original
11
00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,040
design to have fellowship, the
father, son, the spirit.
12
00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,640
So I think it comes down to
identity and it has nothing to
13
00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,880
do with what I do.
It's by His grace and by His
14
00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,040
blood and by His body.
And so as I receive that and
15
00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,400
continue to receive that, I
believe that yields a
16
00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,080
confidence.
Like I said before, it goes
17
00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,040
beyond anything that I ever did
to earn it.
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Growing a small to mid sized
business is like pushing a stop
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train.
You're going to need help to get
20
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that initial momentum going.
Administrative tasks like
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payroll, managing health
insurance, and HR operations
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only add unnecessary weight to
your already busy schedule.
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That's why I'd choose Questco.
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today.
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Today's guest is Jay Urich, a
previous Division One athletes
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playing quarterback at the
University of South Carolina
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from 2017 with a 2020 when he
finished up, he was the top QB
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in the state coming out of high
school class of 2017 and a local
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to the Upstate having a passion
for the community.
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After a successful career and
graduating from Carolina, Jay
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started Original Design in 2020,
a nonprofit that works to allow
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underprivileged kids to succeed
in all aspects of life.
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He is now also the founder of
Banner Player Development and
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Initiative aimed at helping
middle and high school athletes
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have the tools they need to
succeed both in both on and off
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the field.
Jay, thanks for coming up.
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I'm excited to talk to you man.
It's going to be good.
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Yeah, man, I'm excited to be
here.
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And I know you got my last name
right.
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I know we were.
We were connected back in the
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day in high school football.
But a lot of people say you rich
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or something.
So you did.
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It right?
Yeah, that's how well I get the
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same thing with the Gerald.
It's Gerald, but Heath Gerard or
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Keith Gerald.
I'm like, it's just Gerald.
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But when you look back on your
high school career, are there
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any games that really stick out
to you?
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It's like a great game or a
terrible game.
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I think honestly, it's a mix
between both of the great and
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the bad games.
So I think we're playing
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Greenville High School my senior
year.
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So I was already committed to
South Carolina and it was, I
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think it was senior night and I
think it was a back and forth.
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Senior Night.
It was our senior night at home.
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I ran and I think it was going
back and forth as like maybe
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like things like 41, duh, 30
something we were.
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Leading.
Yeah.
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And then so like I think there's
like maybe 5 minutes to go and
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we were driving on the field and
I threw a a sort of seam ball
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into cover 2 corner that sort of
drifted back and he's really
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athletic corner and picked it
off.
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And so they went down to score.
And so they're up by like 2 or
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something like that with like a
minute to go.
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And so that was on scene and I
was like, crap.
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I just like lost the game for
us, but obviously. 2 minutes
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left in the game.
Yeah, Yeah, we have.
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A minute left.
And so my mindset went like, we
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just got to win.
We got to drive down on the
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score.
And you know, in high school
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you're not really like focus on
kicking field goals like you are
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in college.
But we got to score a touchdown.
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So I was like, let's do it.
So he was like a minute left in
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the first play.
We ran like a quarterback
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counter because I was, I could,
I could run a little bit and so
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I took it I think 68 yards of
the house.
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So.
That was like a really fun
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because it was like went from a
big time of adversity where I,
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you know, was really, you know,
you know, hurt emotionally just
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like me.
I just let my team down to, you
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know, being like, let's go like
next play mentality and being
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able to to, you know, score and
on.
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They got the ball back.
They did, and they, you know,
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they didn't they.
Didn't do it.
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They didn't.
Score actually was back on the
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field and prevent defense.
I was one of the deep.
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Nice.
I was playing both ways.
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You play both ways a lot, no?
OK, I got you.
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I never played defense, but you
know, obviously on Thursdays
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before the games, you practice
the last game scenarios and.
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He's a big guy.
I'm knocking the ball down.
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Exactly.
Exactly.
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I don't know if I'll be able to
tackle anything.
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But not a lot.
Yeah, I kid you not, I I still
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think about occasionally.
Not a lot.
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My junior year.
We were playing Blue Ridge your
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sophomore year and we got
smacked.
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We played a terrible game.
We were supposed to be great
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that season.
I played for Jail Man back in
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the day.
You were at Blue Ridge then and
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we had just like beat Southside
pretty good, which is incredible
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because Jail Man is always
terrible.
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And we just won our first game
like 30 points.
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We were like, hey, we're going
to go in there and beat Blue
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Ridge and.
We did terrible was at Blue
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Ridge.
Yeah, yeah.
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So it's probably one of your
first starts, Yeah.
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That was yeah, my sophomore
year.
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I.
Think it.
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Was early in the season right
it?
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Was second game yeah cuz then
the next game we played
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Hillcrest, OK and they won state
that year wow and we were
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playing them kind of tight we
were playing decent and then it
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was the second quarter so early
game I tore my ACL was done for
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the.
Year, I do remember that.
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That was really tough.
Yeah, so goodness, good.
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Memories.
Y'all had y'all had a great team
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that year so.
Yeah, yeah.
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And then?
Obviously went to rent and y'all
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did pretty good there.
Yeah, Yeah, we did.
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I think we did better my junior
year in 2016, in 2017, But then
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right after I left, I think they
won state, really.
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Yeah, it was pretty cool.
First state championship for Ren
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so.
Wow, good for.
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Them That's some good players
coming back.
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Yeah, it was fun.
So when did you get your first
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offer in high school?
So I got my first offer my
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sophomore year of high school, I
think it was the spring and.
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After the season, Yep, so I was.
At Ren at that time and I think
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I went down to, I know I went
down to Mercer University, which
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is in Macon, GA.
And so at this point I had no
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offers, but I had that sophomore
year film at Blue Ridge, which I
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did all right.
Like I was young and had
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potential, but it wasn't even
too crazy.
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I think I threw for like 1300
yards, had about 400 yards
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rushing, 6 touchdowns.
I think I had more interceptions
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than touchdowns, which is tough,
but but at the same time I just
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had a lot of potential and IA
lot of people don't know that,
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but I just started playing
quarterback the year before that
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your.
Freshman year was your first
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year.
So I was a receiver and like
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running back just because I was
fast all throughout, you know,
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growing up.
So I had that one year, not even
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really one year because I broke
my collarbone my my freshman
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year.
So I didn't really have a lot of
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time.
So I really put in a lot of
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work.
So software is kind of your.
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First go, my first go and I, I
had my our quarterback trainer,
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Coach Ramon, who helped me and
so I like really worked hard on
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that, you know, for multiple
times per week just trying to
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get better.
And so then so I had that
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Goodyear, I showed a lot of
potential.
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You know, I was a big guy and
athletic.
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And so Mercer offered me, which
is great my sophomore year.
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And then right after that South
Carolina State offered me.
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And so those were the first two
offers that I remember.
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Everyone after that outside of
like the bigger ones coming
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later, like my junior year, I
don't really remember but that.
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Was pretty good though to go
into your junior year knowing
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like hey, I've got potential to
play the next level.
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Oh yeah, yeah, that was a goal
of mine for a long time is to
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play college football and win
the national championship.
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Wasn't able to do that last
goal, but same time it did mean
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a lot just knowing that the
college coaches were starting to
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acknowledge me and.
And after my junior years,
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really whenever I started to get
a lot more when.
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You get a USC offer.
That was, I think it was after
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my junior year.
So yeah, I was that spring of my
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junior year, got the offer and
then after that Tennessee
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offered me.
Yeah, Tennessee, Duke offered
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me.
And those are like the three
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main schools that I was like
really, I was, I think after
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Caroline offered me, I, it was a
spring that year.
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I committed that summer because
I knew I just wanted to stay in
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state and Coach Moschamp was
building something great that I
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want to be a part of.
And then, so then after that,
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that's whenever Tennessee and
Duke were really trying hard to
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make me flip nice.
And so there's a bunch of
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stories.
I, I literally just saw
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goodness.
What's his name?
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He's he's the DBS coach right
now for Virginia Tech, but he
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was the DBS coach at at Duke.
OK.
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You were in his recruiting area.
Yes, Coach Jones.
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Derrick Jones.
And so he was at Duke at the
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time and before signing day, you
know, the next year, they kept
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recruiting the whole year, even
though I was committed to
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Carolina.
And, like, they were like really
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trying to get me to flip.
And yeah, they didn't.
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But he was going all the way
throughout signing day and was
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like, really trying to get me to
go.
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And I saw him at a conference a
month ago and we were able to
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talk about it.
And he was like, I could never
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get you to come to do it was fun
talking to him.
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A.
Couple years later, so before we
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I do know a lot of the audience
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wanting to hear more about your
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experience at Carolina and just
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Now let's get back to our guest.
I think it was the mindset shift
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because like obviously in high
school, you're like, you know,
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you're still kid, you're having
fun, you're, you know, growing
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up.
And so I already had that
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mindset where I was a little bit
different in the way of like I
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had that goal to play in
college.
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You had that training mentality.
I was really working hard and so
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I was, I was prepared for it.
But once you get to college,
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specifically the SEC, it's like
a different kind of level.
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And so it wasn't anything new to
me, but it was just the
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consistency of that mindset.
So for four years, it's like if
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you want to be good, if you want
to succeed, you have to have
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that same mindset consistently.
You can't just like in high
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school, you can have it, hey,
I'm going to have that mindset
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during the season and I'm going
to go vacation.
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All this kind of stuff like you
just can't do that, like to be
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successful at that level.
And so I think the consistency
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of that mindset.
I have friends and former
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teammates are not playing in the
NFL that, you know, JC Horn,
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Javon, Ken Law, Debo Samuel,
Bryan Edwards, like that.
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Dylan Long on that.
They had that mindset and it was
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like it was just nothing else
matters, which is really
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challenging because like
obviously there's more to life
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than football, but I think that
challenge of of the consistency
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part of it was the toughest
part.
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So they had it kind of like
built in them that mentality to
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work hard and win and just that
discipline.
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Yeah.
They had the discipline, they
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had the commitment, they had
that competitiveness, which all
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those things I had as well.
But it was the, I think for
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them, it was, you know,
opportunity met, you know, they
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were able to meet that
opportunity with performance and
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they were able to really, you
know, perform well at that, at
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that level and then obviously
make it to the next level and
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thrive there.
So it was really encouraging to
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be around those guys because I
had that kind of same energy.
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But at the same time, knowing
that like success isn't defined
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by one specific measure, you
know, it's like everybody has a
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different journey.
And so it's kind of cool now to
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be able to talk to them and see
what they're doing and being
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successful and see what, you
know, other people like myself
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who might not have made it to
the league, how you know, it's
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all combined and it's all about
that brotherhood and love.
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Not necessarily The Who has the
most money or who who who made
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it the furthest, the longest
NFL.
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It's that family approach which
is to me the most.
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Important it's pretty cool.
You'll still have that you'll
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still talk to each other and
have that relationship.
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When you look back on your first
day at Carolina, so you in high
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school, you were the best guy on
your team.
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You're the best quarterback in
the state and then you get your
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first day at Carolina and
there's all kinds of talent
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there.
What was that like?
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It was really tough.
I think the obviously coming in,
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there's already a starter and so
it's like.
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Who was the starter when you?
Were his name is Jake Bentley.
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Yeah, OK, I remember.
He's a good friend of mine and
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he's still stay in touch.
He's now the head coach at high
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school in Rock Hill.
So I'm proud of him and we still
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stay in touch to this day.
And so like, it's like you want
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to compete and you want that job
at the same time like respecting
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him and and learning a lot from
him and all the other
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quarterbacks too.
That's a new for.
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That's new for you because you
always start.
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Yeah, yeah.
And so it's a, it's a new
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adjustment.
And so I think that adjustment
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was probably the hardest part.
And then just confidence, you
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know, like knowing, you know,
having that confidence and
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building that confidence
whenever you might not get as
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many opportunities at the
beginning, obviously you're not
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on the first team.
I whenever I was there, I was
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not even on the on the second
team.
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And so you have to like, you
know, with the opportunity, you
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have to be able to meet that
opportunity with execution.
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And a lot of times whenever you
don't execute, which a lot of
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former athletes know this, it's
really hard to build that
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confidence up to continue to
perform.
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And so it's like, it's like with
anything else, you have those
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great times of, of performance.
And there's also sometimes that
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you, you know, necessarily
didn't do as well.
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And so just being able to go
through both of those successes
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and failures with the mindset of
consistency, with the mindset
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of, you know, next plays most
important player.
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That's a good mindset.
Like I'm sure the coaches are
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always drilling that into you
and all that.
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Are there any mentors that stick
out to you, either players or
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just like off the field your
first couple years or during
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your career at Carolina?
Yeah, so when I got there, the
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director of player development
was a guy by the name Marcus
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Loudmore.
Oh yeah, he's.
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One of my that.
Sounds familiar?
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He's a he's a baller and love
him to death.
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And so he was, he was there and
so we got to know each other
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pretty well.
He was amazing, obviously
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amazing player, amazing guy.
And so he was really impactful
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to me as as a freshman.
And then he stepped from that
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step away from that role in the
corner.
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Shaw, another great man, stepped
into that player development
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role.
And he's another guy that, you
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know, still taught him to this
day and just a big influence in
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my life.
And both of those guys obviously
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had amazing careers, but to me,
what stands out to them, to me
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about them is they're just who
they are outside of football.
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And what I was able to glean in
their heart for other people
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behind them to grow and learn,
you know, and it wasn't just all
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about them.
And so I was able to learn a lot
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from them.
And you know, like you talked
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about with Banner player
development is a lot of those
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lessons that I learned from
those two guys.
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Obviously they were doing at the
college level for college
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athletes inspired me to be able
to help sort of transition what
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I learned at the SEC level down
to middle and high school
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athletes.
Nice.
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Well, that's quite the
opportunity there, learning from
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someone that was mentored by
Marcus Lattermore and Connor
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Shaw.
What about your first game day
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experience?
What was that like?
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Yeah.
I mean, it was crazy.
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I mean, I think we played our
first game in 2017 at Bank of
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America Stadium in Charlotte.
Oh nice, I was that UNC.
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I think we played NC State.
NC State, OK.
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We beat them, which is great.
And so that was a really fun
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environment and NC State got a
had a good program, we had a
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good team.
And so there's just, I mean,
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countless amount of memories
from the from that first game
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all the way throughout my whole
career.
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One of the favorite ones that I
had was, I think it was my
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junior year before my injury, I
was able to play quarterback
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against Clemson at home at
Williams, Bryce.
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So I got a drive there and that
was really fun and being able to
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play against, you know, the team
from where I was.
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Yeah.
So it was a cool moment.
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That is pretty sweet.
Yeah.
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When you look back on your time
at Carolina, obviously there's
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all kinds of temptation for for
athletes and there's a lot of
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guys that aren't believers.
Yeah.
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How did you stay true to your
faith?
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You're not.
And how difficult was it to do
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so?
Yeah, it's a really good
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question.
So in 2013, so I was 15 years
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old at the time, I knew I needed
Jesus, like I knew I just needed
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his forgiveness, his love, his
kindness.
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And so I remember in that
moment, like just yielding to
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the Lord and was born again,
which is beautiful.
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And so I started following Jesus
from that moment and really was
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passionate about my teammates
knowing Jesus and just an
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evangelistic gifting Lord gave
me and just started wanting all
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my teammates at Wren and Blue
Ridge and Wren to know him.
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And so took a lot of my
teammates to church.
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And you know, it was always
talking about the Lord and it
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was beautiful.
And then that carried through
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all the way through my time at
South Carolina And so just going
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after the Lord.
But I remember in 2020,
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obviously COVID happened and
that gave me an A lot of
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opportunity to spend a lot of
time with the Lord in the secret
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place, just me and him and in
prayer.
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And I remember he met me in a
new beautiful way that was
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revolving around the word
intimacy.
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And for so long I was focused
on, you know, obviously
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forgiveness of sin and of, you
know, the Lord saving me.
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And then now like my passion for
other people to know him, which
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obviously is beautiful, but for
in some, in some ways I was
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neglecting a lot of the, the
main point of what I believe
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Jesus came to do, which was to
restore us back to proper
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fellowship and union with the
Father.
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How are you neglecting it?
I was focusing on what I could
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do for the Lord more than
receiving His love for me.
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And so it was so much focused on
what can I do, how can I share
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this with another person, which
obviously are good things.
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But what I've come to find out
is that the most important thing
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is that the order is correct.
A pastor named Damon Thompson,
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who I really look up to has said
before, beholding is the means
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of becoming.
And so it totally that's kind of
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phrasing.
That mindset of a beloved
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identity shifted everything in
my heart because for so long it
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was about doing it was about
what can I do to become more of
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a good Christian.
And it shifted to I'm going to
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behold Jesus in that 2020 moment
and then encounter with the with
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the Lord, I'm going to behold
his beautiful faith and behold
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the glory, the land of God who
took away the sin of the world
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and loves me.
And from that, I'm going to
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become all he wants me to
become.
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I'm going to like the scriptures
talk about being being molded
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from one level of glory to
another level glory into the
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image of Jesus.
And so that shift was huge.
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I think another big thing, part
of that was just a reliance the
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Holy Spirit and those moments
and just diving deeper into the
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Lord's heart for me to
experience Him on an intimate
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level.
A personal level that was
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centered around that rather than
you know what to do for.
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Him, a big part of my faith
journey was having community for
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the first time, which was really
kind of introduced to me at
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Gauntlet through screen.
I was like, wow, there's guys my
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age that are like following the
Lord and passionate about it and
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genuine about it.
And that was well, like pretty
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much the first time I've been
introduced to that.
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But going to Carolina, was there
any moments where you didn't
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have that community or you might
have felt alone in your in your
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walk?
Yeah, definitely.
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I think I know.
I bounce around your question.
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I was able to answer the
question about the time at
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Carolina.
But so I think it was there was
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definitely times where obviously
if you're following the Lord,
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it's not going to be the most
popular thing and there's going
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to be things that comes up,
comes up and temptations and
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things like that.
But to your point, the
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importance of community,
different people who are, you
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know, on the same page and are
going after the same, same
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thing.
You are so important.
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And so obviously within
football, it's a lot of people
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are going after football, going
after success, and obviously you
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can do that.
But at the same time, I had
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amazing group of people around
me in Columbia when I got to
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Carolina that helped me, that
guided me, that loved me.
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And then also, you know, it's
just beautiful that throughout
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my time at Carolina, that same
passion for my teammates to know
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him obviously was still there.
And so I started to lead what we
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called Rosewood Ministry, which
the house that we met in was on
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Rosewood.
If you're in Columbia, you know
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where it's at.
But on Rosewood, we would get
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together.
And at first we just met in the
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team meeting room with a couple
guys.
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We just sought the Lord and, and
got together.
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And from there over the next
three years while I was there.
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Yeah.
And you know, we just, I mean,
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we, we saw some amazing things.
It got the point where, you
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know, some teammates were born
again and we, they were baptized
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in the, in the cold tub.
So just a beautiful life change
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more than anything, just
honoring his presence, honoring
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the Lord's presence of, you
know, we'd get there.
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We had, we had to be there.
I think we had morning practice.
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We had to be there at like 6:30
in the morning, everybody in the
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door.
So we would get there like 5:15,
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we'd go in the team room and all
lights would be off and we'd
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just put on worship and just
seek the glory of the Lord.
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And some of the most powerful
encounters I've ever had were in
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that team meeting room with five
to 10 athletes just on their
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face before the Lord, just
seeking his glory.
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And some amazing stories that,
Oh my goodness, I can go on
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forever about the glory of the
Lord and his presence coming in
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those moments where we were so
desperate for him that, I mean,
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I'm telling you, one of the guys
that came in, I think, I think
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he was born again in that room
and just met the love of the
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love of God.
Just met him in that moment
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after practice.
He, you know, we were always
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shook because the glory and the
Lord was so present.
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We, we got back from practice
and I saw my teammate just sit
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in the locker room like this and
just like shook.
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Like he just had practice.
We just had two hour practice
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and he was shook to his core
because of the encounter he had
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with the Lord.
He was like changed everything.
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And so started that.
And then now like, I think it's
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continuing to go and obviously,
you know, I'm not there anymore.
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But that was something that to
your point of community was so
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important that I was able to
sort of help, you know, go
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before and and and lead.
And it blessed me having not
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just people at church, but I
thought the Lord directing me to
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creating the church because the
church obviously isn't a
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building.
We go to it.
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We are the church, we are the
body.
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And so bringing church to the
environment of the football
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team, the facility to work.
We are the body and that was
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something that was really.
Huge.
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How did you become a leader off
the field even when you weren't
485
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,880
necessarily always a leader on
the field?
486
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,960
Where'd you get that confidence?
Good.
487
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,200
Question So I think it comes
down to identity, you know, like
488
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,760
knowing who you are and
obviously get things that the
489
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,320
Lord's given you and you know,
given me to just operate in.
490
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,280
That is like, obviously I didn't
earn any of that.
491
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:19,840
It's just sort of like how the
Lord made me.
492
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,920
And so I think it's the grace of
the Lord in the favor of the
493
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:27,320
Lord, but the same time, the
confidence that comes through
494
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:33,080
time of the Lord speaking his
identity over me and that
495
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:38,040
identity as his son and his
beloved, beloved, righteous son.
496
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,760
And it has nothing to do with
what I do.
497
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,120
It's by his grace and by his
blood and by his body.
498
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,440
And so as I receive that and
continue to receive that, I
499
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:50,880
believe that yields a confidence
to walk in the gifts in the
500
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:56,640
different places that Lords put
put us that, like I said before,
501
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,880
it goes beyond anything that I
ever did to earn it.
502
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,240
Wow, that's incredible.
You obviously had an awesome
503
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,760
four years at Carolina.
How difficult was it to
504
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,040
transition away from football
into civilian life?
505
00:25:09,360 --> 00:25:12,200
It's a big shift.
And so that's a lot of why I'm
506
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,280
so passionate about helping
middle and high school athletes
507
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,680
with Banner is because I knew
how challenging it was for me as
508
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,600
a college athlete where we did
have the support, you know, like
509
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,840
we were just talking about with
Marcus and Connor and so many
510
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,800
other people that it still was
so challenging of making that
511
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:33,360
shift of, you know, just our
identity, the the beautiful and
512
00:25:33,360 --> 00:25:39,600
the crazy part is that as much
as the Lord's doing, I still had
513
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,320
never have had it together.
And so I still don't have it all
514
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,840
together.
And so it's like, I'm like.
515
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,840
It's say it louder for all the.
People who don't understand.
516
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,280
None of us got it all together,
yeah.
517
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:55,120
It's just like it's so important
to to have the people there to
518
00:25:55,120 --> 00:25:58,920
support you and like those
people who might be able to have
519
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,160
been a little bit further along
the way than you to be able to
520
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,960
help you in that process of
transition.
521
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:08,200
So I remember, you know, after
four years of being defined as a
522
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,120
Carolina football player, that
being, you know.
523
00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:12,360
In your life being defined as a
football player.
524
00:26:12,360 --> 00:26:16,480
Exactly.
You know, 20 years and I don't
525
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,000
know, 20 years.
I wasn't playing football
526
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,240
whenever I was like 3, but you
know what I mean?
527
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:24,000
You know, it's like for so long
and then that is no longer part
528
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,800
of your identity.
I mean, you've been working for
529
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,000
it pretty much every day.
Like as a football player, you
530
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,200
think about it pretty much every
day.
531
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,160
That's all.
You're just done.
532
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,440
Yeah, and so that was really
big, a big shift.
533
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,440
And you know, the Lord did some
amazing things in my heart
534
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,800
specifically to that I that
identity piece.
535
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,760
That was just times of struggle,
times of, you know, achievement.
536
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,880
But that transition is is really
tough.
537
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:55,640
So you started original design
within months of graduating from
538
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,880
Carolina.
What sparked that idea?
539
00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,880
And and for those that aren't
familiar, what is original
540
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,480
design?
Yeah, so I actually started
541
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,360
original design in 2020 when I'm
all still playing.
542
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,960
So it was my, it was sort of
like the end of my football
543
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,560
career.
But original design is all about
544
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:15,600
helping underserved children in
Columbia know their original
545
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,840
design to have fellowship, the
Father son of spirit.
546
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,120
And so a lot of what we've been
talking about of what the Lord
547
00:27:21,120 --> 00:27:25,280
was doing in my heart, the Lord
showed me that that wasn't just
548
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,120
for me.
It was for me to receive at the
549
00:27:27,120 --> 00:27:28,840
beginning, but it also was the
gospel.
550
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:33,360
It's that in the in in the
beginning in the garden, you
551
00:27:33,360 --> 00:27:35,800
know Adam and Eve before Sinner
of the world were walking the
552
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,080
cool today with the Lord and the
command of the Lord was to be
553
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:43,440
fruitful and multiply and to
enjoy him and obviously the sin
554
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,640
end of the world and we all were
to see that we all have to play
555
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,440
a part in that of that
deception.
556
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,360
And so now the Father is in has
sent Jesus to restore us back to
557
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,680
that original design.
Now we on earth as his as his
558
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:59,440
bride as the bride of Christ are
now bringing forth the Kingdom
559
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,280
of heaven and get to be
ambassadors for Jesus.
560
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,760
And instead of saying, I am
going to say this prayer and
561
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,920
then I'm going to go to heaven
one day, we get to believe the
562
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:13,960
true gospel that Jesus has
defeated every enemy and now we
563
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,200
get to partner with him and
bring his Kingdom to earth.
564
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,840
And so that's what I'm all
about.
565
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,120
That's what I want to do.
And so original design is a big
566
00:28:21,120 --> 00:28:24,920
part of that.
And so we practically what we do
567
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:29,280
is we help children between the
ages of 8 to 12 in Columbia,
568
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,720
boys and girls, to have a mentor
and who loves Jesus.
569
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,600
And so we partner about 20 kids
each year.
570
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,880
Where do you find the kids
typically?
571
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,760
Yeah.
So we find the kids in the city.
572
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,320
So we have partnerships with the
city of Columbia and also social
573
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,040
workers.
And so we have the kids about 20
574
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,880
each year and then they are
entered into our year long
575
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,840
mentorship program where they
had that one to one mentor and
576
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:59,200
we walk with them throughout the
whole year and have a full day
577
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:03,200
camp or a certain event every
other month of the year.
578
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,960
Wow, every other month.
That's quite a commitment.
579
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:10,120
So it's a big commitment for the
mentors, but also the it's not
580
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,240
just one-on-one, it's it's
one-on-one in the sense of
581
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,560
mentor to camper, but it's a
group setting.
582
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,640
So they're not just getting that
one to one support.
583
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,800
They're also getting that
communal aspect of what you were
584
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,840
talking about earlier that is so
important for young people to to
585
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,760
thrive.
When was the first event?
586
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,440
And so you you said you started
doing it while you were still
587
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,320
playing.
Like that's absolutely insane
588
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,640
that a student athlete has the
capacity to add on to that.
589
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,320
What was the process of starting
it?
590
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,200
And then what was the first
event that y'all launched with
591
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:37,920
it?
Yeah, so it actually started,
592
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,800
you know, in the secret place
whenever we were, you know,
593
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,240
during COVID, which was which is
also that revelation he gave me.
594
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,400
But then the next thing is I
took it to Connor Shaw and the
595
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,840
player developments we started
talking about in meetings and
596
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,440
just me and him having a
conversation and he's like Jay,
597
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,520
I was like, I probably need to
wait until I'm, you know, know
598
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:57,880
what I'm doing to start
something like this.
599
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,280
Like what are you waiting on?
I was like, I don't know how to
600
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:02,680
start a non profit.
He said, let me help you.
601
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,840
So Connor helped me and then I
had a meeting Coach Muschamp and
602
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,440
he it was huge support got me
connected to the mayor and a lot
603
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,800
of other people to help me sort
of get this thing jump started.
604
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,800
And so to answer your question,
we had in a fundraising event in
605
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:21,760
2020 and before our first year
of programming, which was in
606
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,360
2021.
So we raised $30,000 to help
607
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:28,280
start the first original design
year in 2020.
608
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,480
And then jump started with I
think it's 23 kids the first
609
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:38,440
year throughout all of 2021.
So that was four years ago where
610
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,280
some of those kids now, I guess
they're in high school now at
611
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,200
this.
Point They're getting into high
612
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,840
school and it's going to be fun
to see them come back and
613
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,720
hopefully be mentors one day.
That's awesome what you are
614
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,880
doing there in Columbia and cool
to see how much you're giving
615
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:53,040
back to the community there.
So now you're balancing that
616
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,640
with a for profit and banner
player development.
617
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,600
How do you balance the two and
what are some of the challenge
618
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,840
for some of the differences in
the challenges between leading
619
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,000
both?
Yeah, it's a really good
620
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,560
question because I wouldn't be
able to do it without the people
621
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,440
around me.
So with original design, I was
622
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,440
wearing every hat for so many.
Obviously, when you start
623
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:12,880
something, you're doing
everything right.
624
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,720
And so I was doing everything.
And then just the Lord blessed
625
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:18,880
us and people started to, you
know, see what we're doing and
626
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,760
believe in it.
And I received a lot of amazing
627
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,920
donations and continue to to do
that.
628
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,280
And so we're growing.
And so with that, we've been
629
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,880
able to hire a program director.
She was part time with us last
630
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,280
year.
Her name is Emily Germstadt.
631
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,880
She's amazing.
She has an MSW.
632
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,240
So is, I mean, absolutely the
perfect person.
633
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,320
So she is full time with us this
year for original design.
634
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,400
So she's running all the
programming and I'm doing like
635
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,080
the the fundraising, the leading
the business and everything with
636
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,360
original design.
So I'm able, I said that because
637
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,960
that's what empowers me to be
able to also do the things the
638
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,600
Lord's call me to do in other
spaces too.
639
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,400
So still leading original design
and that's a, that's on the
640
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,400
forefront of my mind pretty much
every day and leading Emily to
641
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,400
do that as well.
And then with Banner, it gives
642
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,920
me a lot of time to be able to,
you know, build on those
643
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,040
relationships and start, you
know, everything with Banner.
644
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,400
So what are some of the services
or some of the clients that
645
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,120
you're working with with Banner?
Yeah.
646
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:21,560
So Banner, just to give you a
little bit of insight before
647
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,920
about telling the clients that
we have, Banner is all about
648
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,960
former college athletes
empowering the next generation
649
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,280
to thrive both in sports and in
life.
650
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,320
And so next generation being
middle and high school athletes.
651
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,640
And so the four pillars that we
have in helping these middle
652
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:43,360
high school athletes are centred
around a lot of what the college
653
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,400
athlete would receive.
It's what I received.
654
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,840
And so giving back that to the
next generation.
655
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:52,480
So those 4 pillars are character
and leadership development.
656
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,560
Second one is recruiting support
for those athletes who want to
657
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,480
play in college.
The third one is building your
658
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,280
brand and obviously with an IL
now.
659
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,280
You know it's.
Making us away.
660
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,280
And so you got to be prepared to
to know exactly how to build
661
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,800
your brand, how to do that
without ego and you know, all
662
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,640
those different things.
And so that's the third one.
663
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,600
And the fourth one is life
beyond sports.
664
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:19,200
So like we like we talked about,
you know, the ball starts, stops
665
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,880
bouncing, you know, eventually
and you have to be prepared for
666
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,000
that.
And you know, a lot of things
667
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,080
that we do are mock interviews,
you know, how to be prepared
668
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,400
with for a interview with a
future employer.
669
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:32,640
How do you look someone in the
eyes?
670
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,160
How do you shake their hand?
Resume building it.
671
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,640
Was a middle and high schooler.
Yeah.
672
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,360
Teach them how to do that.
So it's, it's really hitting on
673
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,720
those things before they need
them.
674
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:48,280
And so now they're growing into
those people that's that's
675
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,200
holistic further than just their
sport.
676
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,920
You're turning them into young
men, yes.
677
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,600
Young men and young women,
because this isn't just for
678
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:55,880
football.
This is although I played
679
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,560
football and this is for all
sports.
680
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,520
And one of my good friends and
mentors, his name is Dylan
681
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,920
Thompson.
He's the director of player
682
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,520
development at Washington
Commanders right now.
683
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,440
And so I was on the phone with
him and he was talking about,
684
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,920
you know, a lot of what we're
doing with Banner and what he's
685
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:15,760
doing in the NFL.
It's about seeing what's
686
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,400
invisible, right?
Everybody likes to see what's
687
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:23,280
visible right now.
How can a when my son or my my
688
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,600
daughter who's a high school
athlete coming home to after a
689
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:27,800
workout, they're going to be
sweaty.
690
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,000
You know, they're going to be,
you know, changing the clothes
691
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,120
and it's going to be like, hey,
I got I got some work in today.
692
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,199
And the parent goes perfect,
that investment is working
693
00:34:35,199 --> 00:34:39,239
because I see that visually.
And so with Banner, your athlete
694
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,159
as they come home aren't going
to be sweating unless they're
695
00:34:42,159 --> 00:34:44,120
doing something completely.
Wrong.
696
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,120
Exactly.
So now it's seeing the value in
697
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,239
the sense of what's the
important thing down the road in
698
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,159
40 years, how do you want your
child to be developed to where
699
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,880
after you're gone, they're set
up to succeed.
700
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,520
They're set up to treat the
janitor.
701
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:00,680
That's just as much as as well
as they're going to treat the
702
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,520
CEO.
And it's those mindsets that
703
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,560
just don't come from training.
They come from intentional
704
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:10,480
development that these former
college athletes and myself are
705
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:14,080
being able to build to help set
up the next generation to learn
706
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:15,200
those.
Yeah, I don't think people are
707
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,320
aware of how difficult it is for
players to transition when
708
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,840
sports are done.
Like, I'm sure you'll have
709
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,560
speakers all the time telling
you like, hey, you need to be
710
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,040
ready for whenever football's
done.
711
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,760
And 90% of the room's not paying
any attention to that.
712
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,600
For sure.
That's they're not.
713
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:29,840
They're not talking to me.
Yeah.
714
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,480
But there's just so much
strength, even guys that make it
715
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,320
to the NFL, I mean, the average
careers, three years, like
716
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:36,640
that's not enough to live off
of.
717
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,240
And so also, you've been doing
this entire life and what do you
718
00:35:39,240 --> 00:35:40,000
do?
Yeah.
719
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,000
And that's an incredibly
difficult transition.
720
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,920
I I wasn't in that, in those
shoes.
721
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,400
I just played high school
football, wanted to play in
722
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,600
college, and it was difficult
for me to transition.
723
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,160
I didn't even have those four or
five extra years.
724
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,440
So I can only imagine, but I
don't think parents are aware of
725
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,640
the necessity of preparing for
afterwards, especially not a lot
726
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,440
of the athletes.
For sure.
727
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,280
And I think it's, I would even
argue that it's even more
728
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,040
important for the high
schoolers, like in your
729
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,120
situation of like you had that
dream and for everyone,
730
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,080
obviously it ends at some point,
but it's like you don't have
731
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,680
that support.
So in college, if you make if
732
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,640
you go to South Carolina or
Tennessee or Florida or wherever
733
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,560
might be, you're going to get
that support.
734
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,000
So I had that and it still was
challenge.
735
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,320
That's great that y'all have
that used to.
736
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,400
They didn't do that, Yeah.
That's great.
737
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,000
But now for Someone Like You
back in the day, how cool would
738
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,800
have been for you to be able to
have someone to say, hey, I know
739
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,880
I've been there before and the
disappointments are the the
740
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,120
successes.
And now like helping you walk
741
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,320
through that.
I would even argue to your point
742
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,440
it's it's almost more important
for high schoolers to have that.
743
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,400
I would have loved to have had
that resource.
744
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,600
I'll say that.
Yeah, because, yeah, it's
745
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,720
absolutely a difficult
transition when you look at some
746
00:36:47,720 --> 00:36:50,120
of the players, the young
student athletes that you're
747
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,120
working with, what some of their
schedules look like on a
748
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,720
day-to-day and how young are
some of them starting to train
749
00:36:55,720 --> 00:36:56,280
at.
Yeah.
750
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,760
So obviously it varies for
every.
751
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,800
Athlete.
I've heard, I've heard kids.
752
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,920
I mean, you hear of Tiger Woods?
Oh, yeah, there's videos of him
753
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:05,800
like putting at the age of
three.
754
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,720
Yeah, you know, there's
obviously it depends.
755
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,320
Yeah, it's there's they start
early and.
756
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,360
Start the crib.
Yeah, for sure.
757
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:18,160
And one of them that is one of
our clients is, I mean, just so
758
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,760
focused on baseball.
I mean, just locked in almost
759
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,080
too much.
And that's something that I'm
760
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,440
working with them too is like
your identity is further than
761
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,120
baseball.
Yeah.
762
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,600
And then there's others that,
you know, are, you know,
763
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:34,320
learning what it looks like to
have a schedule on the calendar.
764
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:35,800
So you're going into ninth
grade.
765
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,320
And so we have.
Custom plan for each individual
766
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,080
kid.
Depending on the, the specific
767
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,320
plan that they're on, if they're
in our inner circle, which is
768
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,760
more of our, you know,
one-on-one coaching with me, you
769
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:51,800
know, they, they have those
one-on-one meetings and, you
770
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,000
know, we're working through
like, hey, you have to let me
771
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,520
know your schedule because I'm
going to tell you, you know,
772
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:57,840
we're going to figure out that
time.
773
00:37:58,240 --> 00:38:01,240
And then you can't just be like,
you know, the day before we
774
00:38:01,240 --> 00:38:03,920
like, oh, I had this game now.
And it's like, obviously if it
775
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,800
comes up, it's fine.
But it's like, it's just
776
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,960
learning those things that, you
know, you, you need to learn.
777
00:38:09,720 --> 00:38:12,200
Yeah, it's hard.
And so like just something small
778
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,720
like that to where it's setting
up the schedule and, and doing
779
00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:16,120
your chores and doing all that
stuff.
780
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,080
Obviously as you're younger
you're doing that and as you're
781
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,760
growing up learning, you know a
bunch of different things.
782
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,240
But we have, you know have those
one-on-one clients that I work
783
00:38:24,240 --> 00:38:27,520
with.
And then we also have a more
784
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,560
broad opportunity where we're
having a player development
785
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,760
conference this summer as well
as our player development
786
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,600
course, which is available for
any parent to the.
787
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:42,560
Course.
So the course was it's about 7
788
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:46,360
hours of content that I was the
main teacher who had a bunch of
789
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,360
other former athletes come in
and we broke down everything
790
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,120
with those 4 pillars.
And so we discussed all of that
791
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,840
and then one and just combine
all of our expertise to where
792
00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:02,440
now parents can invest into
their athletes future by, you
793
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,680
know, purchasing that for them
and walking with that through
794
00:39:04,720 --> 00:39:07,840
through them with it.
And then also we have school
795
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,880
partners right now on that
within high schools.
796
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,880
And so there's a couple
different ways from the
797
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,520
conference to buying that, the
parent buying the course for the
798
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:19,040
kid, doing the one-on-one
coaching with me.
799
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,800
So that's a little bit more
intensive.
800
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:25,320
And then the athletic programs
within high schools partnering
801
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,440
with us to where now the parent
doesn't have to invest in it.
802
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,560
Now the athletic department of
the booster club is.
803
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,400
And so it's sort of there's a
wide variety of how people are
804
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,480
being involved.
In high schools, there's so many
805
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:40,000
good opportunities like that to
just have extra education, like
806
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,800
the just the, the broad plan
education system that we have is
807
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,560
it's gets the job done,
whatever.
808
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,440
But I wish that we learned more
about entrepreneurship, about
809
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,200
finances, about player
development, just like more life
810
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,800
skills.
That would be such a, just a
811
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,320
blessing to have some of those
things talk to you as a high
812
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,720
schooler for sure.
So I'm I'm hoping that y'all get
813
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,040
get some high schools clients
and whatnot.
814
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,400
It'd be great.
It's gonna be awesome.
815
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,480
And you're working with some
schools in the Upstate,
816
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,200
Columbia, is it kind of all over
the state?
817
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:06,800
Yeah, it's all over the state
right now.
818
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:10,520
I have clients that are
individual, individual young
819
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:13,000
athletes from Greenville to
Columbia.
820
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:14,960
I don't have any in the lower
state right now.
821
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,000
And then schools wise, we have
two school partners right now
822
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,840
within in Columbia.
And so just up here, like I told
823
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,160
you earlier, I was meeting with
school in the Upstate.
824
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,800
And so just like, you know,
continuing that and the words
825
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,480
getting out.
And so one thing that I've, I've
826
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,720
sort of seen is that the coaches
and the athletic directors see
827
00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:38,880
the need, you know, they see the
need specifically with the, with
828
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:42,480
the college game coming down to,
you know, the high school game,
829
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,000
there's a great need.
And now it's just about how do
830
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,520
you feel that need and having
the right curriculum?
831
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:53,800
How has NIL affected high school
recruiting or just high school
832
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,640
kids?
In general, I think it's, it's
833
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:59,080
influenced a lot.
I think not only has there been,
834
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,000
I mean it's always been like
this, but like expectations for
835
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:06,600
kids, You know, they think that
they're going to be ACC football
836
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,640
player.
And obviously I love championing
837
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,480
all athletes.
But at the same time, it's like
838
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,440
good to have goals and
expectations, but also being
839
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,320
realistic to where if you don't
end up being an AC football
840
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:21,320
player, it's like not knowing,
not seeing yourself as a failure
841
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:22,800
because it's like.
Just so.
842
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,960
High the expectation.
It's like it's silly to put that
843
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,960
on yourself.
And I learned that too.
844
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,080
It's like there's a lot of
things that I would change going
845
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:31,880
back.
So I think there's always been
846
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,560
like that kind of like, you
know, challenge, But I think
847
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,000
with an IL now coming to college
and you know, the house
848
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,800
settlement and a lot of
different things now in the high
849
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,600
school level in South Carolina,
you can have a one year transfer
850
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,480
rule.
And so that just so now if you
851
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,280
Trent, you can, you can have a
one time transfer.
852
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:51,760
To new school without having to
move.
853
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:53,320
Yeah, OK.
That's because used to you'd
854
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:54,520
have to get a new address.
Exactly.
855
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,880
You had to move.
And so I mean, you see it just
856
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,040
moving, moving down.
And so, you know, the big time
857
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,320
high school recruits are having
NIL deals and stuff.
858
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:06,120
And really, yeah.
So it's it's interesting to see
859
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:07,520
how it's going to play.
Around, I should say, I'm not
860
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,000
surprised.
I mean, the private schools
861
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,760
would do that.
Back in the day, we lost a lot
862
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,680
of players to the local private
schools, so I won't get too far
863
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:15,960
into that.
But it's kind of always
864
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,000
happened.
But I guess now it's just more
865
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:22,200
open and more, I don't know,
thrown around or common I should
866
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,400
say.
But what is the the conference
867
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,400
that y'all are doing in July and
how can people get involved with
868
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,400
that?
Yeah, so we are actually trying
869
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,560
to nail down the date.
It's going to be June 12th or
870
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,360
July 14th.
Those are Saturdays.
871
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,640
And so that's going to be
available for all high school
872
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,720
athletes within the state.
And so we're also going to
873
00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,200
invite the parents of the
athletes, coaches and athletic
874
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,440
directors to come.
And the heart behind the
875
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,680
conference is just giving away
the value of what we're doing at
876
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,560
Banner and almost like an
introduction as we're getting
877
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,280
things, getting things rolling
and so.
878
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,680
Is it a camp or is it like show
up in like an actual conference
879
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,720
like you would see?
Yeah, it's an actual conference
880
00:43:00,720 --> 00:43:02,720
and so there's no athletic
activities with it.
881
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,960
It'll be from 10:00 in the
morning to three in the
882
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,640
afternoon, have lunch and we're
going to bring in big time
883
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:14,480
speakers to come in and and help
break down a lot of our pillars.
884
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:18,360
And so we'll have I'm planning
right now having a scout from
885
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,200
the Tampa Lake Bucks, a scout
from the Pittsburgh Pirates to
886
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:26,200
to my friends to talk about
recruiting and have my good
887
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,840
buddy Darian Rencher, who's a
former Clemson running back, an
888
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,400
entrepreneur.
He's going to be there.
889
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,720
We're going to have a former
college athlete panel is.
890
00:43:33,720 --> 00:43:35,320
The Pittsburgh Pittsburgh
Pirates.
891
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,800
Is that here?
Yeah, yeah.
892
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:41,000
And then we're going to have a
really, really well known
893
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,920
speaker things Will Baggett.
Come on, talk about building
894
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,320
your brand.
And then that used to not be a
895
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,000
thing your brand, you know, like
that's just where NIO is taking
896
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,320
over.
It's not, I shouldn't say,
897
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,720
taking over, but just making an
impact or change.
898
00:43:52,720 --> 00:43:55,160
For sure, Yeah.
So we're going to be doing that
899
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:59,640
and tickets are going to be $50.
And so there's going to be a
900
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:02,400
link eventually where we get
things going once we officially
901
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,600
finalize it.
But it's going to be in
902
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,280
Columbia.
And yeah, it's going to be a
903
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,280
great opportunity for really
everybody to get together and
904
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:11,960
grow and learn.
Absolutely.
905
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,120
So if someone listening wants to
get involved in original design
906
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,520
or maybe they are a parent or an
athlete wants to get involved in
907
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,240
banner, well, actually let's go
back to the original design.
908
00:44:21,240 --> 00:44:22,360
Sorry.
What are some of the needs
909
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:23,720
there?
What are some of the areas where
910
00:44:23,720 --> 00:44:25,040
people could get involved with
that?
911
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:29,840
Yeah.
So the first need is we have,
912
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,200
you know, around 15 to 20
campers each year.
913
00:44:32,720 --> 00:44:36,600
And so obviously we have
reoccurring donors and people
914
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,120
who have been sewing into our
into what we're doing, whether
915
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,480
it be one time or reoccurring
donors, but we have camper
916
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,160
sponsorships.
And so obviously it costs a lot
917
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,880
of money to to put on with what
we're doing to full time
918
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,200
employees as well.
So there's a lot of different
919
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,760
expenses that go into it.
And so one of the ways that
920
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,400
people can help is by sponsoring
one of our campers.
921
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:00,200
And that cost us $1500 for the
whole year.
922
00:45:00,720 --> 00:45:03,120
And so if someone wants to do
that, they can do that monthly
923
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:04,520
just.
Over 100 bucks a.
924
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,600
Month yeah, yeah, like a hundred
$125.00 a month or you can pay
925
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,040
the whole thing.
And so we're, we're doing that
926
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,520
every year.
And so, you know, you can donate
927
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:19,200
on our website, it's called
original designsc.org and we're
928
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,640
on social media and everything
like that.
929
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,040
And so that's like one of the
biggest ways as we like get into
930
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,880
this year.
Is there still campers that we
931
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:28,880
have not yet sponsored.
And so that and then getting
932
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:33,000
involved, I mean, there's one of
the biggest things is our need
933
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,920
for mentors.
And so, you know, the kids are
934
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,680
there, you know, we had that
access and we we see the kids
935
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,680
that have the need, but we can't
do what we do without amazing
936
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,840
mentors.
Are you only in Columbia?
937
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,800
Are you planning on expanding
anywhere else?
938
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,400
Right now we're in Columbia.
Who knows in the future what the
939
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:52,080
Lord can do, but so all of our
our year long program is
940
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,840
centered in Columbia.
But we do have mentors that come
941
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,760
from Greenville, the Upstate or
the lower state.
942
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,960
They just drive and we give them
gas money to come up every time.
943
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:05,160
But if you are above 18, if you
love Jesus and you have a
944
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,320
passion for kids and, and, and
want to, you know, be a mentor
945
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,600
to someone who might need it,
that's a huge way that you can
946
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,680
get involved.
And we have that those forms and
947
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:16,480
that info on our website as
well.
948
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,360
And so, and then as well, if you
just want to serve, you know
949
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,720
that mentor responsibility is a
commitment, right?
950
00:46:23,720 --> 00:46:26,000
So it's a whole year long of
like it is going to be you need
951
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:27,600
to have the time available to do
that.
952
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,240
But to be a support volunteer,
it's just, you know, whenever
953
00:46:31,240 --> 00:46:34,000
you can make it, you know,
there's our a list of our camps
954
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,960
and our events.
And if you want to come help put
955
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,600
out coolers or put up the tents
or you know, go get the food or
956
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,240
whatever might be to help make
the day happen.
957
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,080
That is a way to get involved
and with a little bit less
958
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,560
commitment.
So how do you balance both the
959
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,880
nonprofits and the for profit at
the same time?
960
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,960
But then also to, I want to link
that question with being a
961
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,640
previous student athlete was
your, I mean, obviously your
962
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:59,080
work life balance was crazy.
Do you feel like it's healthier
963
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:00,800
now?
Like how does it compare?
964
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,520
You're, you're wearing 2 hats
now is leading a nonprofit
965
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,120
leading a for profit?
How does that time commitment
966
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,920
compare to being a student
athlete and an SEC school?
967
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,440
Very similar, you know, it's
like.
968
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,920
Just as busy.
Oh yeah, just like I feel like
969
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,640
I'm more busy now because of the
two things.
970
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,800
But you know, it's just
different, is a little
971
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,680
different.
But it's like that mindset was
972
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,480
something that I had and there
was just like I had the
973
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:30,120
priorities of what I wanted to
do and and then the things that
974
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:32,200
were important to me and then
being able to value those
975
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,080
things.
And so it just looks a little
976
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,280
bit different now.
Leading original design and
977
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:41,040
banner and I've learned so much.
Just Lord's been showing me so
978
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:47,640
much about finding true rest in
him and building things in rest
979
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:51,040
and not in restlessness, which
is really challenging to do.
980
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,960
I'm sure you don't miss those
getting back home at 4:00 AM
981
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,600
after an awake it's.
Tough, which I do miss the crazy
982
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:02,960
thing as I do miss the the, you
know, hard workouts, even though
983
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:04,800
you know, a lot of people.
I don't miss that at all.
984
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,320
Like I wish I can go back to
that and just be be running one
985
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,240
10's and lifting tons of weight
in the morning at 5:00 AM with
986
00:48:12,240 --> 00:48:14,120
my teammates.
You know, it's just something
987
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,440
that's special, the.
Commodity involved in that.
988
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,200
Yeah, it's just beautiful.
It's a, it's a It's something
989
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,800
that you can't really.
Experience anywhere else and
990
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,240
it's like the bonding like with
your brothers during that time.
991
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,040
Actually on the way over here,
when I was leaving the office, I
992
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,120
ran into one of my former
teammates from high school.
993
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,360
He was in the parking lot and I
walked that parking lot every
994
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,480
day and he just been, his mom
works there and he just been
995
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,040
having to bring her something.
So it's just like I hadn't seen
996
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,640
him in 10 years.
But we just connect like right
997
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,680
away.
So it's like that brotherhood
998
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,840
just like is always there when
you work hard together.
999
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,480
So it's pretty cool.
That's really cool experience.
1000
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,880
It really is.
But yeah, going back to to
1001
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,680
banner player development, how
can people get involved with
1002
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,480
that?
Or if they want to be as a
1003
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:55,680
volunteer, like as a coach, or
if they want to get their kids
1004
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,280
involved, or if they're an
athlete that wants to get
1005
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,240
involved, how can they?
How can they find you?
1006
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,680
Yeah.
So on our Instagram, it's Banner
1007
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,080
PD as in player development.
We have that.
1008
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:08,320
And yeah, I'd love to, you know,
we have our website,
1009
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,680
whichisbannerpd.com.
And so there's a lot of ways to
1010
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,600
get involved there to where you
just reach out to me on the
1011
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,240
website or on social media and
I'd love to talk with you as far
1012
00:49:17,240 --> 00:49:22,120
as any of those 3 right now, we
don't necessarily have, you
1013
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,120
know, banner coaches as in
former athletes being a coach.
1014
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:27,880
It's just me right now.
But if this is something, if
1015
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,560
banner is something that like
you're like, that's what I'll,
1016
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,080
that's what I love.
That's what I want to do, just
1017
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,320
reach out to me.
And I've had probably about 10
1018
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,280
people do that already.
And so they're going to be
1019
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,600
helping with a conference.
And so there's different ways to
1020
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,120
get involved there.
There's a lot of former
1021
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:45,920
teammates or.
Not former teammates, but more
1022
00:49:46,240 --> 00:49:48,840
former athletes, gotcha, who are
from all around the country,
1023
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,880
who, you know, have seen what
we're doing and wanting to get
1024
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:52,320
involved.
Yeah, A little bit on a tangent
1025
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,520
before we close out, What are
some of the things that some of
1026
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:58,000
your teammates have gone into
after football, like some of the
1027
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,640
careers that they've chosen?
You know, I think obviously one
1028
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,400
league playing in the NFL, Yeah
2.
1029
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:06,760
Outside the league, Real.
Estate.
1030
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,320
No.
Let's see, what else.
1031
00:50:13,720 --> 00:50:16,600
Sure, a lot of coaching.
Coaching, yeah, that's one.
1032
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:22,440
Yeah, that's a big one.
And then maybe a little bit of
1033
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:23,640
consulting.
OK.
1034
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,640
Yeah, nice.
So those are probably the top 4.
1035
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,440
Yeah, Real estate's a big one,
too.
1036
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,040
Yeah, that's where a lot of
athletes go into.
1037
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,600
There's a guy I follow, he's a
previous athlete of Southern
1038
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,560
Cal.
He's pretty big name Kyle
1039
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:36,880
Matthews.
He does something very similar
1040
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:40,200
to this business podcast, but
he's started a real estate firm,
1041
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,840
so I could just I see where
there's a good transition from
1042
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,720
an athlete to do in real estate.
That's kind of another thing
1043
00:50:46,720 --> 00:50:47,920
too.
Like I kind of wish I knew more
1044
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,240
of the options.
So like when my football career
1045
00:50:50,240 --> 00:50:52,200
ended, per SE, like I was trying
to play my freshman year at
1046
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,840
Clemson, that didn't work out.
I just looked down and saw, hey,
1047
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,200
I'm a student, I'm just going to
be the best student I can.
1048
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,960
I just kind of went on my major
and took it.
1049
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:00,560
I didn't really think about
anything else.
1050
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,040
Like I just kind of fell into
engineering.
1051
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:06,400
But all I'd say you've had
plenty of mentors along the way
1052
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,200
so far.
What impact has that made on you
1053
00:51:09,240 --> 00:51:11,960
and what is the best advice that
you can remember receiving?
1054
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:17,000
I've for sure had amazing people
in my life and I would not be
1055
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,760
where I am at all without
without all of them.
1056
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,160
For my family to, you know,
Connor Marcus, which I already
1057
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:27,920
mentioned to the pastors in my
life, to Greg Demare, my
1058
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,880
spiritual father and a lot of
friends.
1059
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:37,480
You know, I think as far as the
best piece of advice is, I would
1060
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,600
go back to what I said earlier
about beholdings of the means of
1061
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:49,320
becoming and really diving into
an opening up your heart to how
1062
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:53,800
much the Lord loves you and not
letting that just be something
1063
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,320
that, you know, I've already
heard that, you know, it's like,
1064
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,480
Oh, I got that, you know, like I
know that Lord loves me.
1065
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,520
It's like one of my friends has
said that before.
1066
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,000
It's like, if that's the, if
that's the response, I know
1067
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,560
there's more to go deeper in.
If the response is all I already
1068
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,040
know that like check, you know,
why are you asking me that?
1069
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,680
Why I didn't talk And there's
that's an invitation to go
1070
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,480
deeper because whenever you
experience the love of Ababa,
1071
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:20,320
the father, there's no end.
And so there's always there's
1072
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:24,600
just this call to go deeper.
And so that's what I'd encourage
1073
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:29,000
people with is just, and like,
let that hit you, like open up
1074
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,440
yourself, open up your spirit,
let the Holy Spirit come in and
1075
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:35,680
like really reveal how much he
loves you, how much he adores
1076
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,960
you, how much he's always been
with you and how he's jealous
1077
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:40,640
for you.
And, and from there, I think a
1078
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:41,880
lot of beautiful things will
flow and.
1079
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,400
That's beautiful.
Yeah, there's a absolutely no
1080
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,880
end to it.
You will never fully comprehend
1081
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:49,560
the love of.
Christ, yes.
1082
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,200
You can't fully comprehend it,
just like how with the Bible,
1083
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,240
like I read the same passage 10
times and and hear 10 different
1084
00:52:55,240 --> 00:52:57,280
things.
There's no end to the the wisdom
1085
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,440
in that.
Yes, Jay, thanks so much for
1086
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,280
joining me today.
Man, that was a great talk and
1087
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,880
I'm excited to share this one.
Yes, man.